Remember to post your points grand total for the semester (not including blog post & final presentation points) with your final weekly essay.
Something a little different, for our last week:
After viewing Bertrand Russell's message below, what do you think Immanuel Kant's (or Susan Neiman's) and William James's (or John Kaag's) messages to future generations would be (see the concluding chapters of WGU and SSHM)? What is yours? Mine would include Kurt Vonnegut's:
What will you tell them about how people in the 2020s either did or did not become "good ancestors"? Did they reach and reject "Peak Fantasyland" then, and begin to really value truth, facts, and reality?
And what do you think future generations' message might be, to us? Will it be anything like the following?
- "We are all now stuck in a science fiction novel that we are writing together." Kim Stanley Robinson
- "Where there is no vision, the people perish." Abe Lincoln
- "The really vital question for us all is, What is this world going to be? What is life eventually to make of itself?" William James
More questions:
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- "Philosophy lives in words, but truth and fact well up into our lives in ways that exceed verbal formulation." 129 Can you (partly) describe an example of that?
- "Everything makes sense. Just not to you or me." 133 Does this make sense?
- What do you think it means to say "truth is our story about the facts"? 134
- Something's being "useful at a particular time for a particular person" does not make it true. 136 Why do you think so many of pragmatism's critics misunderstand this?
- What do you think it means to have "conversations with sensations"? 137
- Are you a meliorist? 143-4
- What do you think of the Gertrude Stein anecdote? 152
- Do you like James's "Hands off" message? 158
- How do you interpret Protagoras's "Man is the measure" statement? 161 Is it a "radical humanism"? 164 What does that mean to you?
- Do you agree about "the greatest use of life"? 169
- Do you agree about "the art of being wise"? 172
- How does chance make the difference between resignation and hope? 174
- Must James's "unseen order" be something supernatural? 177 Or can it just be aspects of nature not yet understood?
- Have you ever experienced "the sublime or the religious" in some mundane activity (like Whitman on the ferry)? 182
- Kaag concludes his book with a sunset, which Neiman (201) says young people typically have no time for. Do you?
- Which of the synonyms for "serious" Neiman mentions do you associate with being adult? 193
- Is Peter Pan a worthy hero for a grown up? 194
- In what way is growing up "the work of generations"? 195
- How is life like Neurath's boat? 196 Is Otto Neurath a good adult role-model? 197
- Neiman wishes she'd "known enough to ask my teachers the right questions before they died." Do you know some of the right questions? 198
- Does the U-Bend surprise you? 199 Does it encourage you to think more positively about aging?
- Do the older people in your life (grandparents for example) "manage emotions more smoothly" or remember fewer negative things?
- Do you think James was wrong about what happens by age 30? 200
- Do you look forward to "escaping" the urgencies of "your natural force" (like Sophocles)? 202
- Do you yet realize "that no time of one's life is the best one"?
- Do you look forward to "giving back"? 204
- Are the people you know who possess the soundest judgment and the most common sense also the wisest? 207
- Was Kant right that philosophy is (or should be) "natural to all of us"? 208
- Did you "grow up in a home filled with good books and articulate people"? Did that "enlarge your mind" and world? 209-10
- Can you "tell someone how to think for herself"? 215
- Would you choose to live your life again, unconditionally-as Nietzsche's eternal recurrence proposes? 220 Or only on condition that it would be different next time, as Leibniz said? 216
- Was Voltaire right about why people would choose life? 217
- Do you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation? 221
- "It's more common to think about death in your twenties than it is in your fifties..." 230 Do you hope that's true?
- Do you think fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying? 230
- "Real grown-ups are not long distracted by bread and circuses." 234 Are you?
- What will you do to escape, or avoid falling into, Fantasyland?
Does the U-Bend surprise you? 199 Does it encourage you to think more positively about aging?
ReplyDeleteThe U-bend actually makes a lot of sense to me. This book has reiterated many times that the 20’s are not the best time of our lives because they’re often the hardest. The people at the bottom of the U are the people who repeatedly tell those in their 20’s that it only gets worse from there. For them that is true, they have not begun to go back up on the other side. But does it make me feel better about aging? I’d lean towards no. I fear growing up because I’ll mean I have to claim responsibility for the world and my generation’s choices. It already scared me when I was finally old enough to vote and I saw my friends voting, because I knew that our voices mattered. Getting past your 20’s means being old enough to make a change, hold office, and raise kids. How we do all of those things matters so much. Before now, it’s been easy (and kind of fun) to point out the flaws in the world because I did not feel responsible for them yet. Now all the things that I hate about my city, state, country, and world I am responsible for. I know I’m not solely responsible, we all are, but this does not mean any one person should sit on their hands and look to other people to make the change. I look up to places like California because though many people make fun of them for being the “granola” type or for being vegans/for reducing waste, they made helping the planet/their society a trend. That is very cool to me and I hope that trend spreads. I fear growing up and taking responsibility, but this does not mean that I won’t do it and that I’m not excited to do it. I’ve already seen my generation do some very cool things (including buying out tickets to a Trump rally and not going, as well as writing a musical on tiktok) and I think we can continue to do positive things in the future. But I would also like to add that I am very excited to be old. The middle might be hard, but I cannot wait to get to the other side. I look up to my Grandma a lot and I’m excited that one day I’ll be old and have the privilege to be honored and loved like her.
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I agree I think that's why everyone wants to stay a kid and enjoy life without any responsibilities. However, you need to also see all the freedom that comes with growing up!
DeleteI agree with you it gets worse from your 20s.
DeleteBarbara, I enjoyed your post. I am seventy-four and I understand a little how you might feel at your age, but do not rush to get old. Enjoy life as it happens. I hope you have many more good days than ones that are not so good, but as you get older if you are fortunate health wise, you will remember more of the good days. I read recently where activity shifts from your right to your left hemisphere which accounts for your remembering more of the pleasant parts of your life. The good news for you is that I believe that ongoing research will help them determine what causes dementia and that will make getting older more enjoyable. I know for me except for my medical issues, the last five years have been some of my most enjoyable. I got to go back to school and even though the old brain doesn't work as well as it did, I think I am generating some new neurons each day. How old is your Grandma? Does she live close to you? MTSU has a great program for seniors and it might be fun if you found a course that you both enjoyed and took it together. It's funny but unlike when I went to school fifty years ago, I now feel like I can contribute and give a perspective from experience. In a political science course the students joked about the fact that I had lived what they were reading about and they appreciated my perspective. Thanks again for the post and take care.
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I agree with Don: take your time. Every stage of life can be "the best" in turn, don't hurry past any of them.
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Barbara, I really enjoyed reading your post because you wrote in a way that made it feel real. As if you poured your thoughts onto the screen.
DeleteClaiming responsibility for your actions in this world is certainly something I do not hear many people talk about. When we are kids relying on our parents, our education system, and the people around us, it is a shock to grow out of that and enter a world in which you are responsible for your own decisions. I do however disagree with you with regards to your responsibility for your generations choices because you are NOT responsible for any other human beings choices other than your own. Every individual views the world in their own unique way and is therefore accountable for their own decisions in life.
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Question: Do you think fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying? 230
In short I do believe that is the case that growing up is the fear of living and not dying. In most cases, we don not think of our inevitable death on a daily basis as the things that are to come in the moment are really things to do with life. We worry about our education, we worry about the careers that we will pursue, we worry about the the amount of money we make to be able to support ourselves, and we worry about a myriad of other issues that come with the package of living. Perhaps this is the reason my generation is so insistent on removing responsibility from one's self and instead placing the blame on others. I believe I have mentioned this quote in a previous post but I will mention it again as I believe it fits in this case: We live in a world where it is popular to be negative - Kevin Hart. Looking at mainstream media and at social media sites such as twitter, one can easily see the negativity in which people submerge their lives with as people cheer them on thinking they are somehow enlightened by having a grim view of everything in the world. Perhaps this is a coping mechanism for the fear of living that engulfs the lives of so many young people today who lost the sight of purpose in their lives. Limit the influence of social media in your life and go pursue purpose that will make you excited to live life rather than dread it.
Hi Simon! I enjoyed your post and like how you incorporated the Kevin Hart quote(again). I understand your position about fear of dying, but for me personally it is more of a fear about not getting to live my life as opposed to fear of dying. I have a lot I want to accomplish or do or see, so I fear the chance that I would die without doing them first. I think that as I get older, maybe I will fear death less because I will have done some of those things. Because I have so much to look forward to, then I have so much that I could lose so it makes sense that is scary.
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I love Kevin Hart and that quote! I liked your answer, but I'll have to disagree about mainstream media. The purpose of media is partly to let us know what is going on in the world around us. It's true that a lot of it seems negative, but the news organizations aren't causing bad things to happen (in most cases they reduce influence as much as possible too), so they're just showing us what we can fix or help in our world. With out calling attention to the negative things, we'd never know there was a problem. I do agree that it's not healthy to fixate on the news because those burdens aren't yours to carry. So if you're saying to just minimize how much you fixate and stress on the news, then I could agree with that.
DeleteI agree with you and that is exactly what I said for that question to.
DeleteYou have a really nice, thought-out post!
DeleteI agree with what Bailey Stephens said, about having more of a fear for not getting to live your life, over a fear for dying. We never know when our last second on Earth will be, which is what makes it worrisome, for me.
Although, that argument could be made, for both sides.
Nice post :)
I completely agree, especially with your stance on blaming others.
DeleteThat's very interesting that you explain the negative atmosphere and mindset that the modern world has as a coping mechanism. In addition, I'd like to support your idea by saying that I think that people adopt that mindset because talking about negative things is a constant and reliable source of entertainment and consistency is attractive to people.
DeleteWhy Grow Up author Susan Neiman is discussing Sophocles when she makes the statement that “growing up means realizing that no time in one’s life is the best one” (202). I think that she is right on this one point. I think that any time could be the best time (or worst) based on personal circumstances and possibilities. I do not think that any specific time is either good or bad. Most people have some things that are going well and either things that could be improved. For instance, my parents might say enjoy high school and college because “they are the best time of your life.” However, that might be the time they enjoyed the most because of their circumstances. Since we are spending so much of our lives right now on lockdown, we might end up picking another time to be the best time. Or we may discover that there are even good things in quarantine and maybe in a few years we will look back at it thoughtfully as a simpler time that was not that bad. The author goes on to compare the seasons of life to the seasons of the year. Some people prefer Spring while others might Fall. She suggests to appreciate the beauty of each season, whether it be Spring flowers or Autumn leaves. She doesn’t want you to be the person who moves to Florida so all your seasons can look the same. Her advice is to “resolve to savour every second of joy each season contains” (202). So overall everyone should appreciate the now, and when you look back as you age, you will have fond memories from every point in your life.
ReplyDeleteI think you're right that circumstances at different points of your life can largely determine how well that season of life goes. Personally, I strive to be content in the lows/rough seasons of life with what I have, but still strive to improve. In the highs/best seasons of life I strive to enjoy it and reflect each day on everything that went well/made me happy. No one time is the best, but you can also apply that to the worst times. Like what Simon said about blessings in disguise. I'm very lucky in my home life and situation in that quarantine quickly became one of the highs in my life so far because I haven't had that much time with my siblings since we were little.
DeleteI agree with this view on the idea no moment is either good or bad. We tend to associate moments with emotions becasue the memory evokes a feeling. I think its more important to figure out what is causing that feeling rather than just thinking that its the moments fault.
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I agree that we should appreciate the now and that every moment may be seen from a positive perspective. However, I disagree that there are not any specific times that are good or bad. I believe each person does go through times that are inherently good or bad because of the external or internal factors that affect them. Despite this, we can still take every season with an awareness of the present moment that allows us to live freely instead of waiting for the specifically good moments.
DeleteGood and bad times certainly come and go throughout ones lifetime. I think it is also true that it is subjective as to what is a good time and what is a bad time as it depends on perspective. It is also impossible to predict the future so a perceived "bad event" at a given moment may actually be good in the long run. I have heard stories of people having a bad time missing a flight but it turned out to be a blessing as the plane ends up crashing.
ReplyDeleteagreed! life is full of ups and downs and I love the part you said about perspective. Everyone views failure and success differently.
Delete• Do you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation? 221
ReplyDeleteI honestly believe that the next 10 years of my life will be 100 times better than the previous 10. This is a very optimistic way of thinking but let me explain myself; I am currently 18 and the last 10 years would be form 8-18 and I never really made decisions for myself it was always my parents or guardian. I didn’t understand what I liked and disliked, and I never had the freedom to experience the world! I was tied down by school, parents and responsibilities. I understand the struggles and responsibilities that come with becoming an adult but there are also so many more opportunities to express yourself. From 18-28 I hope to be married and traveling the world! I would also would have graduated college and started my career! To make these goals a reality I need to focus on myself and work extremely hard because 10 years sounds like a long time, but to achieve those mighty tasks I need to constantly improve myself for the better.
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I think that is a pretty reasonable assuption and I think it is important that we all be optimistic in this respect. As Susan Neiman Keeps explaining, life as an adult should be exciting.
DeleteHi Ammar. I love everything that you had to say in your post and all of your positivity. I definitely agree that it is a great goal to have to experience this next ten years as the better. every stage of life has its own challenges and ups and downs. Meet them head on and enjoy the ride.
DeleteI love this! I think it's a great question to be asked at eighteen because we really are starting to make our own decisions and grow up a little bit. I love how focused you seem on making these next ten years as fulfilling as possible. Great post!
DeleteYour optimism is quite admirable in a way. I do genuinely hope you get what you expect from life. We should all want a fulfilling life
DeleteI'm starting the next ten years from your end point, 28, and we have very similar goals, ha! But I'm also very hopeful for what's to come. Good luck to you!
Delete• What will you do to escape, or avoid falling into, Fantasyland?
ReplyDeleteI will do everything in my power to become someone who is hellbent on the truth. Logic has always been a big deal for me, and I think it is important that we be constantly ware of what “picks our pockets or breaks our legs.” This world is full of people who want to live in their own form of reality, so much so that they are willing to drag us all in with them. Kurt Andersen has done a fantastic, no pun intended, job with this piece of work and I am eternally grateful. However, this book has a lot to contend with and I for one will be on the side of truth. Even though it may be inviable that we lose I still think it is our duty to continue to fight this battle. With that being said, I think it can be said that with every book a person reads they are no longer the same after. I hope to read far more than just this book on the subject, and I hope I will see even more clearly the issues with this country than even Kurt Andersen and with books like the ones assigned in this class I am sure I am on my way. Thank you all for joining me on this experience and I hope your interest in philosophy persists.
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Hello Nate, your post was very interesting and I enjoyed reading it. I would agree that with this world people want to live for them and not others and they will drag others down to get to the top. I truly believe in today's world everyone needs to work together to be one.
DeleteThe problem is Americans nowadays have such a fetish for freedom that it has led them to not only accept blatant lies as gospel, but to pass those thoughts on to others as well and indirectly affect society in a very negative way.
DeleteBeing adamant about the truth seems like a great way to avoid falling into Fantasyland. I believe that much of Fantasyland was born out of a defiance of the truth for one's own opinions. This is a destructive way to live which only further complicates the Earth we inhabit. Relying on the truth will surely help us from falling into the Fantasyland that much of the world lives in.
DeleteDo you think fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying?230
ReplyDeleteThis is a really good question. I think that is so true. I always hear people say a lot that I fear to grow up. I don’t think this is because of death. In fact, I think it’s because there fear for going through the things, we all don’t want to go through. That’s being a grown up. From my own perspective I am also scared to grow up. That is because there is so much I don’t want to go through. For example, taking care of a whole family isn’t easy. Also, working for almost your whole life is also something I don’t want to do. There is a lot that only adults have to do, and I don’t want to go through all of that. I’m sure most people also don’t want to go through. Also not being able to the things that you used to do in your young age is also something that I feel most people tend to not want (including me). Even if people did feel like they wanted to get to that stage, I feel like once they get to that point in life, they get tired quick and wish that they never had to get to that point. Also, I feel like most people just want to stay in their teenage years because those are the best years of your life and you are an adult but you don’t really have to do everything the adults have to do.
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This is a really great take on the topic.
DeleteI definitely see your point, and can agree with it. It is quite scary to think of those huge, sometimes heartbreaking, responsibilities. Taking care of your family, plus your other family (such as parents) in their old age, is a lot to have on your shoulders.
Nice job!
This is something I also agree with as well. I feel like many young adults and just people in general may fear growing up due to reasons like being scared of the end of their life. However, at the same many are fearful of struggling and failure when it comes to getting older. Much more weight is placed on a persons shoulders while growing up, handling bills, credit, debt and many more trials and tribulations during life can be stressful and cause many to be scared of the unknown.
DeleteGreat post! I agree with your perspective on being fearful of grown up responsibilities. If I could stay in my late teenager years forever I would, and I know a lot of adults that reminisce a lot on the period of life we're living now. I think people are just scared of growing up and not taking advantage of life when they were in their prime.
DeleteAs someone who is viewed as a grown up (heading towards 30) I'm always looking for an adultier adult when something is going on or I need help. The fear of responsibility and almost of taking a leadership role in society can seem very dauting indeed.
DeleteThis is my exact perspective as well, people are afraid of responsibility as they are taught growing up that it will only get worse even if it won't.
DeleteI completely agree, I think growing up holds a lot of responsibility that people don't want, and I'm not ashamed to admit it, neither do I, but it's a part of life, and it's something we'll all go through.
DeleteI think this is a great post, for me I feel as if for most people its not the fear of death, its the fear of uncertainly that lays ahead of them in their lives. Nothing is for sure and nothing is guaranteed and that scares a lot of people including myself.
DeleteDo you agree about "the greatest use of life"? 169
ReplyDeleteHow does chance make the difference between resignation and hope? 174
This maybe a ramble, so sorry to whoever is reading, I'm not sure if I'll be able to answer the question properly,but at least gives some ideas to build on.When it talked about the green sign saying, "Life is worth living" and Kaag said Life is simply lived until it is not. Whether it be because of old age and you reached to your limits, or if you turned to a dark corner and you're on the edge of the world. We've all had dark moments in our life and we have encountered friends or a family members who have these suicidal moments, but when we meet a stranger ready to make the jump, we can't neglect someone from taking this action.
I feel like it's by our nature, our empathy for others that we want to reach out for others and give an individual a chance to live longer. When someone says," Life is worth living" sometimes you have to ask,"why?". It could be because some of us have dreams to accomplish, there's some people that want to explore more into life, or maybe there's like a goal to obtain. There's seems to be a sense of purpose when it comes to life that makes us want to be satisfied.However when it comes to our dark moments, I feel it happens for no apparent reason or if stems from a negative aspect of our life whether it be the past haunting us now or the present when something is taunting and discouraging us. In the generation of society, as we advanced in technology,time seems to fly even more quickly.The way the industry changes can cause a lot of pressure for someone to maintain a position,if someone is coming to replace. I feel like people have loss a piece of who they are, and it's more like seeing a mirage of who they want to be.When Kagg talked about," if you throw an item off the bridge, it's GONE." (174-175) as a representation of the process of passing away. Something so precious left your sight, you miss them, and you feel like it's with you, but really it's gone. You can meet many people in the world, but the moment one of them passed away, it's painful. Because no one can replace that person since they are unique. However,when I read it that sentence. I kept thinking about the discrimination in this world and the normalization of things that are deemed inappropriate, or essential worker suffering or passing away because of the pandemic. I wondered if society views us as expendable, that causes us to take the darker route. I feel like either we give purpose in our life that we strive to life or life offers an opportunity for us to choose.
Hi Mai-Thi, this post is absolutely beautiful. I love the point that you made about if society views people as expendable, then we internalize that. It reminded of 2012, I was 13 that year and in February Trayvon Martin was murdered and then in December the Sandy Hook shooting occurred. In the Trayvon Martin case, he was only 4 years older than I am - he was my peer and he was just buying Skittles and tea from a local store when he was hunted down and killed but he was just a kid, doing things that kids do. Nothing that he was doing warranted that to happen to him. And then his murderer was not convicted of murder. With the Sandy Hook shooting, so many children and educators died but there is still no such thing as gun control in this country and cases of school shootings have increased since then. I think it's very true that, at least for those of us that were of an impressionable age during that time, it was made clear that our society and our government DO see us as expendable. Also, your use of Kagg's quote about throwing an item off a bridge reminded me of Bjork's song Hyperballad, I think you should check it out because you might really enjoy it, morbid as it is though.
DeleteMai-Thi, Thank You so much for sending us updates in the chat. I really do appreciate it and see you again. I want to say is that this is truly all true. I am still scared of this day that society is still not changed and moving forward. I wish and hope that my dreams would come true and everyone dreams will come true. I still do not know the answers as well. For the next generation plus us need to change this world and help others as well. Society sucks and to other culture are trying to get along and some culture that is already at peace and safe and not at war anymore are moving forward in the world. Thank You so much for answers this question I really do appreciate it.
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I just want to say briefly, I hope everyone enjoys a safe holiday, I really enjoyed listening and reading everyone thoughts about the world. It has helped me think more about everything, and hope to learn more. With all do respecct, I hope the future for our generation and the new, will be better, while we might hit a wall,eventually we will get over it.
Very kind. Safe holidays to you all from me, as well. I have confidence that your generation will "get over" the wall.
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ReplyDeleteIn the video, Bertrand Russell was asked what advice he would give to people a thousand years from now. He narrowed it to two elements: Rely on the facts when studying or asking questions and choose love over hate.
While I agree with his advice, it made me wonder what life will be like in 3030. In 1010 much of Europe was in the grip of the “Dark Ages” and in 2020 some like Kurt Andersen might justifiably say that some of us have reverted to our own Dark Ages where ignorance and conspiracies abound.
When we look at how far we have advanced technologically in one thousand years, it is hard to imagine how much further we will advance in another thousand years. What will life be like then? Will population growth follow a Malthusian expansion and have to be curtailed because of limited space and food resources. I think it is reasonable to expect that most vehicles will be powered by non-petroleum energy, but will most jobs be performed by some automatons and what will humans do for work.
Will the U.S. even exist as we know it today, or will another country or governmental system take control and dictate the rules Americans are to live by? Will our minds be preprogrammed to only believe a certain way? Will many of the diseases that cause illness and death be eliminated or will we have new ones? Will people exist to one hundred and fifty but only live mentally to one hundred?
Russell’s advice is certainly appropriate for the next fifty to one hundred years, but a thousand years from now, I am not sure what people will be like then. How will they interact with each other? Let’s hope that they will rely on facts and will still understand what it means to love one another.
Don, I do not know what to say. I appreciate your story a lot. I really still want to talk to you about your past and its so interesting what you answer this questions. I am glad and I am happy that I got to know you in class and online class.One day we will meet and I want to tell you about my story too. Earth day is special they for me because I can help animals in the world and help the earth. There is a run and walk marathon for earth day and everyday I walk for earth day.
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ReplyDeleteI won’t speak for anyone else because that would presuppose that I knew what motivated them and I do not know that. I will only say that I did not do my share and was not as responsible as I should have been when it came to protecting the environment.
Yes, I participated in Earth Day and various drives to pick up litter and to sort trash into recyclables early on, but frankly after a while it was simply easier to throw the trash into one bin and take it out to the curbside for its weekly pickup. Could I have created a compost pile and put grass clippings and leaves in it and used it for the garden? Yes, but it was more bother than it was worth and the remnants of the compost pile are still there overgrown by weeds and ivy. The garden was destroyed when a large tree fell on it that’s still there because of not wanting anyone to come out will the virus is still prevalent, so not much use for mulch. Any debris now goes into a plastic bag and into the trash can for weekly pickup and deposition to the land fill along with other plastic bags used to bring home groceries.
I failed you because I was selfish and only thought about what made me comfortable and did not want to be inconvenienced with taking the necessary actions to protect the planet. It did not affect me directly and perhaps I figured that a future generation would solve the problem. I couldn’t see clearly and far enough into the future to see the damage I was doing. I thought of myself as only a small part and doubted that my contribution was that significant.
But I am still here, so it is not too late to change my habits and so I will begin to separate at least the plastic bottles from the rest of the trash and see if I can work with the trash collection company to see if they would be willing to offer a separate pickup of just plastics or cans. Also, I will find an environmental organization like the one involved in cleaning up our oceans and make a donation to them. I cannot change my past behavior, but I can at least try to do something now.
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Weekly Question #14:
“Did you ‘grow up in a home filled with good books and articulate people’? Did that ‘enlarge your mind’ and world?”
I grew up in a small town in East TN, so you can imagine how extremely ignorant, uncultured, and distasteful most people were – and still are, unfortunately.
However, my parents, grandparents and friends that are considered like family, drastically made up for all of the negatives I had to go to school with, etc.
My parents educated me from very early on about important issues such as racism, sexism, and the general woes that people faced in life. Was it a bit morbid for me to learn about what was happening on the news, day to day, with murders, car wrecks, etc.? Yes, maybe so, lmao.
But, it’s because of me being educated on the things that happen in the world, that made me who I am today, and helped me be more mature, and compassionate, throughout life.
Despite being stuck in an environment with people who aren’t open minded, I feel as if I was very educated, and brought up knowing a lot, thanks to my parents. I am very proud to say so, and very honored to have the knowledge I have, at a young age.
Seeing that you stated you grew up in a small town which can at times lead to limited resources then I feel like it's a blessing you were able to beat the odds and do so much with your education and just being open to the knowledge that's all around you.
DeleteMy memories are a bit vague but I lived in Middle TN for the majority of my life, sometimes we would go to Nashville just to go shopping or visit family friends.My brother is 8 years older than me so sometimes I would get to read an encyclopedia or a large book about the world, heck I had to learn stuff from Leap Frog.I know in my elementary school days I had a lot of tutoring to improve my english and summer school just to learn more. Since my parents had to take care of me while they work in the salon, the customers there treated me as if I was apart of their family, so I have a large community that granted me more education. So while growing up I began to understand the world for myself So I understand how you feel, despite how limited the education was to me or the difficultly to understand, I finally grew to the point of where I am because of my community,the school, and some of the resource at home.
DeleteLooking on how you grew up, it made think about my own childhood. While I live in Nashville, TN and did go public to charter to magnet schools, none of my parents had a college degree and didn't speak a word of English when they moved to the country. However, they taught me skills about how to treat people with respect despite adversity and to value the importance of education. Its because of them that made me want to become a teacher so I could help people to learn and succeed and become open-mind especially in a world that is constantly divided and gets blinded by ignorance and prejudice.
Delete• Do you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation? 221
ReplyDeleteYes, without a doubt in my mind I expect the next ten years to become better than the last ten years I have experienced in life. Ten years ago I was 8 years old and during the decade I have been through much. However this previous decade was filled with a lot of trials and tribulations. Many mistakes were made that taught me lessons throughout the years. Growing up under a strict home and having certain restrictions in my eyes, held me back at times. On the contrary, living in a household like this also kept me from making things worse for myself in life. Ten years from now I will be 28 years old. By this time I will have gained my degree in Psychology, maybe even my masters, I also will be a couple years into my career, in my own home, and just experiencing life and continuing to grow as an individual. I would like to refrain myself from staying too deep into debt or hopefully debt-free. The years after college will be the years I and many others will be coming into their primes and these impactful years can shape who we are, what we do, and how we live for many years to come. Knowing this, I want to do all I can to be the best person I can be throughout this upcoming next 10 years in order to set myself straight for many of the other years that will come as well in my life.
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Hello Cory, I really enjoyed reading your post. I definitely agree with you. I also think/hope the next 10 years will be better than the last. I always want to think positive and hopefully the future for 10 years will be bright.
DeleteCory, you nailed this answer. I am 24 years old and I am in college just like you and I am doing Biotechnology and Genetics plus Animation. I want to get master degree as well and set my goals in 10years plus debt-free as well. My father was strict on my family but I do not have my father anymore, just my mom. Now I wonder what is going to happen in the next 10 years just like you are thinking now. Would everything be the same or different. Hopeful it would be different and more happier.
DeleteCory, more power to you. I think very similarly, I definitely hope and think that the next 10 years will be better than the last. Im just hoping they're a happy set, one where I've fulfilled what I wanted in those 10 years.
DeleteI like this post a lot, I feel if though it is very hard to compare. Me being 20 there is nothing the same about the 10 previous years in comparison of what will come in the next 10 because its such different stages of life. But I assume because of past expiriences and knowledge gained that the next 10 will be better.
DeleteWhat will you do to escape, or avoid falling into, Fantasyland?
ReplyDeletePersonally, with the society we live in, I think it’s almost impossible not to, and especially for my generation. Andersen himself says that, “We have passed through the looking glass and down the rabbit hole. American has mutated into fantasyland” (Andersen 6). He highlights social media and the media in general as a large contributor to our mutation into fantasyland. All these movies and books that we dedicate so much time and energy into that we forget what we’re supposed to be living in around us. Inhaling news and using it as fact without researching it ourselves. By these standards, I’m a little hopeless thinking that Fantasyland is easy to escape from. As an effort, quadruple check your facts, don’t spread your fantasy as fact, and start to call out the true and untrue.
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I agree, we've been raised in a fantasyland and people will remain blinded to that fact. I do believe it is possible to remind yourself of not taking everything at face value and do the work to check your own biases/beliefs and be better. Teaching the next generations to do the same and maybe we'll take the fork in the road that leads back out.
DeleteI do agree with you on this. I think that at this point, like you said, America has kind of become Fantasyland. Because of this, the only way to escape it is to make sure you question things and try to form your own opinions and beliefs.
DeleteGreat Post! I could not agree more. I feel like in order to escape fantasyland , you have to escape everything. It is almost as if you went on a vacant island.
DeleteHave you ever experienced "the sublime or the religious" in some mundane activity (like Whitman on the ferry)? 182
ReplyDeleteKaag concludes his book with a sunset, which Neiman (201) says young people typically have no time for. Do you?
I can answer these together: every single day. If I don't watch the sunset, I watch the sunrise because I am frequently still up and working that early. If I miss either, I go out and I spend time watching the sky and the moon. To quote William Morris, "The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life". There is nothing more sublime (by both Kant and Burke's definitions) than to take time, especially in nature, to find peace in being so small and experiencing something so vast as the sky or the ground.
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Yes! Meliorism is the philosophical backbone of my spiritual practice. I can't change everything in the natural process but I can use what I do have control over to improve things and create change for the better. Life and the world are hard to say the least, there's no arguing that this is the best it can be and that type of thinking stunts growth. At the same time though, the world is big and beautiful and full of kindness so it's not so bad, either. Thinking that this life is the worst that it could be would also stunt growth because you resign yourself to not trying to make anything better. It simply is what it is, the difference is in how we perceive things and how we act because that is what we are in control of - this is thinking that causes change because you never settle for less than the possibility of improvement yet never blind yourself to the challenges that may come with it.
I really appreciate your thoughts and answer to the question, I guess where I live there isn't a good spot to see the sunset. I always dream of taking a hike with someone, maybe find a seat to watch the sunset. There's some moments in my life where I and stare closely at everything. I feel like society moves so fast that we never have enough time to enjoy and embrace the small details or when it comes to staring at the sky, we never have time to imagine another world beyond our sphere.
DeleteI am a meliorist too,always tell myself,"I can't save the world alone" and I know there's people out there that probably think the same way. I couldn't agree more for what you said about taking action and how we perceive things. The one thing I'm displease about some people is when they apologize, it feels like they are scripted and would beat around the bush, to have the audience sympathize with them, and not get to the point and justify the issue. How can we enjoy life if we are killing it, how can we strive to be the best if we are harming our world?It best to try something than do nothing, a small act of kindness makes a difference to everyone.
I really like your answers. I think that your reflections on these topics show that you seem to have a good understanding of yourself and your mind, which are both very important.
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I personally do not think anyone can tell anyone how to think. Everyone is in charge of their own thoughts and feelings towards things. According to the book "Why Grow Up",it states how people should think for oneself and put oneself in the place of everyone else. People may have opinions and or advice on how to think but everyone needs and can think for their own self. It also states in the book to be an agreement with oneself. Agreeing is very important and find who you truly first thing. Once you find who you truly are you won't have to care what others think of you and you can just learn for yourself.
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I like the idea you brought up about becoming your own person and how once you find who you are, you can learn for yourself. I agree with that.
DeleteMust James’s “unseen order” be something supernatural? Or can it just be aspects of nature not yet understood?
ReplyDeleteThroughout the history of humanity, nature’s laws have been elusive. People today may scoff at the legends of the past wondering how people could have possibly come to believe in such things but that is rather elitist given all the technology/science/knowledge we have today to help us navigate our world. Even to this day, there are realms of our world that we have not explored even as we push to the stars. One legend that always come to mind when speaking to the explanation of our sensory intakes that grew to legend is the Kraken. A giant cephalopod that haunted the oceans, destroying ships and of course had a taste for human flesh. The Kraken was even included in Systema Naturae (1735) by the pioneer of biological classification Carl Linnaeus. It was not until 1853 that a giant squid washed up on a beach that could explain the myth. These terrifying creatures have an average size of 33 feet for males and 39 feet for females. If you saw that swimming next to your fishing boat during a storm, I’d imagine your view of it would be rather fearsome as well. Though perhaps the Kraken was real, a holdover from perhaps the Prehistoric age and it’s remains are now laying at the bottom of the ocean that we have only investigated 5% of. The definition of supernatural I have always liked is “(of a manifestation or event) attributed to some force beyond scientific understanding or the laws of nature.” All the natural laws we have now were found via the investigation of our world, attempts to debunk the legends of old. It is only supernatural until it can be explained, perhaps some things will never be fully explained but that keeps people exploring. “…Creator has eternally intended this department of nature to remain baffling, to prompt our curiosities and hopes and suspicions…” (James 178)
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I would have to agree with a lot of what you say here. People do tend to think that something is supernatural until there is a logical explanation for the event.
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This concept actually makes sense to me since in the world of marketing, one could say the same thing about a product or service. The "offer" is not the actual product itself but the angle that product is sold from. In other words, what the marketer says the potential problem it solves will be is based on the target audience's goals, current struggles, and overall mindset. Two identical products can be sold with very different stories to different audiences.
In the same way, just as the author mentioned how our interpretation of the facts is never one-to-one and our language and conception of the facts can only go so far, each person will inevitably experience the facts slightly differently. The fact two people who experienced the exact same hardship yet can lead incredibly different lives speaks to this; one person saw their tragedy and played the victim while the other saw it as a chance to grow and make something of themselves. This often more or less comes down to each person's interpretation of the facts through the lens of their values, which to an extent, plays into pragmatism as one will typically approach facts based on how it benefits their own life or the lessons to be learned from it.
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I loved this response. Especially about how people can either play the victim in their tragedy or choose to grow. Which is very true, it just depends on your interpretation of the facts.
DeleteI completely agree with your statements, and speak a little about this topic in my essay, how two people can share the same belief of being correct yet be so dissimilar, how their side is so obviously right, how can the other person not understand? It all depends on how someone is able to accept what they find, and how they use that information.
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Is Peter Pan a worthy hero for a grown up? Not really. Peter Pan, if you read the actually book of Peter Pan, he did something to the kids which I really did not like plus he is kind of odd to me. Peter Pan fights Caption Hook and Caption Hook gets eating by the Crocodile that have the time clock in its stomach. Peter Pan refers to children that they do not want to grow up and stay a kid forever which is not good for children because children need to know that you have to grow up sooner or later. Are the people you know who possess the soundest judgment and the most common sense also the wisest? Yes. My mom is the wisest and not judgment but she could argue a lot some time to time. My older brother, yes, he judges a lot and sometime I want to tell him to stop judging other people including me and just once admit you lost and move on plus apologizes for your actions and say thank you to people. I spend time with my uncle a lot on his farm and he is wiser than my family. I talk to him more because his mind is more at peace.
What will you do to escape, or avoid falling into, Fantasyland? 1. Do not watch the NEWS because everyone is so judgement. 2. Read a book that make you laugh, any book that fill up your imagination. 3. Play video games or get some fresh air and spend some times with your friends and make new one plus travel to place that you have not seen before. Fantasyland, if I can talk to the author I would say this Let it go and move on. The past has already been written again in this modern time and its happening again and it’s sad to me that we cannot move on about this world. It is shameful for me that this world is still too small and if we can’t change about this and not repeat the same cycle, then there is no hope for us at all.
I agree, sooner or later, children need to grow up. It might seem enticing to be a child forever and ignore responsibility, but that's not the way the world works.
DeleteDo the older people in your life (grandparents for example) "manage emotions more smoothly" or remember fewer negative things?
ReplyDeleteI am not completely sure, but I do believe that the older people in my life tend to not dwell on negative things. It is hard to say for sure because growing up, kids tend to see the actions of authority figures such as grandparents differently than they may have been. For example, I do not remember many instances of my grandparents being upset, but that could be due to me as a child focusing on my own feelings most and assuming that my parents and grandparents were somewhat perfect people. Still, as I think back on it and look at my remaining grandparents' actions well, they do seem to manage some emotions more smoothly. Though they still get upset, they seem generally to be able to get over things somewhat quicker. However, they are not perfect and still do remain upset when they are sometimes. I think that moving on from negative emotions is not forgetting negative things that happen, but choosing to focus on the better things instead. Hopefully by the time someone grows to an older age, they have accomplished many of the things that they wanted to in life. I believe that if this has happened, the person will likely be able to focus on all of the good things in their life rather than the bad. This is why I believe that some older people are able to sort through their emotions better, though they are still human and each person manages them selves in different ways.
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I can relate to this because my grandparents also tend not to manage their emotions more smoothly. i believe that relates to past experiences in life and learning how to manage your emotions throughout your life.
DeleteI see my grandparents try to focus on the nicer, more pleasant events that have happened to them over the years. I think part of it may be that know that their time here is beginning to shorten, and they would rather focus on memories that they are happy about.
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ReplyDeleteDo you think fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying?
ReplyDeleteI think it is primarily a fear of ever growing responsibility, which can hit kids especially hard in their compulsory education days. I can remember high school especially being a quite unbearable time in my life in which I wished I could return to the days of recess and 1 homework assignment a week, being constantly bogged down by useless busy work which was meant to "prepare me for college" (even though college has been far easier) in combination with recently getting a job. This is why I believe suicide rates are so high amongst high school kids, they feel like they can't possibly take anything more overwhelming than this if this is just supposed to be "preparation for the real world" so they become afraid to live in a world where they in their minds can't possibly succeed. This is why I feel that adults shouldn't be so hard against high school students who are struggling with a newfound overwhelming level of responsibility, they should instead remind them that college and career work while demanding of attention and determination are also both far more free and rewarding than high school and part time work. Dying should never be a more favorable proposition than living especially for people so young with so much left to live for, whether it be starting a family and bringing another being into this world with limitless potential or pursuing their dream career and recognizing their own potential. It is however still a very prevalent issue, and I hope that parents and teachers alike both take action to ensure those they have responsibility for don't fear living as a grown up.
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I can see your viewpoint, and I will agree that the fear of growing up is more related to the fear of living. I believe that responsibility can play a great role in this fear, but I also believe that there may be more than just that, i.e. realizing that you'll have to grow up the rest of your life disabled. A gruesome example, but it adds on top of those responsibilities that could lead one to fear living.
DeleteI really see and totally understand why you choose those points of yours and the reasoning behind them. I totally agree with everything you said and I hope that the fear of growing up changes from being either really feared of living and dying into seeing your self as a better person and making a change for the better of the world and society.
Delete"Everything makes sense. Just not to you or me." 133 Does this make sense?
ReplyDeleteIn a weird way it does, since we all have our own ideas of what makes sense. We all have what we perceive to make the most sense in the world, so when something goes against it we immediately believe the world doesn't make sense. The world does and is how it is, we can just perceive it to be weird or be strange. If we compared the views of an adult to a child for example, a child might find things in the world to not make much sense but an adult may find that it all makes sense. Age, background, experiences in different parts of the world, all of these can change our views on what makes sense in the world compared to everyone around us. Which means we are all always going to have the world not make sense. It's weird, but knowing the world is always going to not make sense to us, has it make the most sense. It's been strange to think about this question, but while it might not make sense on first analysis of the quote, it actually makes a lot more sense when thinking about in our interpretations of the world.
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DeleteThis is how I view things too. Everyone has their own different version of reality and how they make sense of it. Many times they are informed by general education and science as well as developments within their own country, state, city, etc. The universe is the universe regardless of how we view it or try to make sense of it, and the same way we can use Rutherford's Nuclear Model of the atom to make sense of the building blocks of the universe, we later used the Planetary and Quantum models of atoms to do the same thing. The only thing that changed was our perception and visualization of it.
DeleteIn time, I think we will get closer and closer to making sense of everything around us, but I feel that the true scope of the universe is just too large for us to ever make sense of it entirely.
ReplyDeleteDo you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation?
I believe every year I become more and more hopeful of a better future and have a more positive outlook on life. When I was younger l I did not think very highly of myself and it took a while to grow and find my confidence. I have found respect for myself and I think that is a big thing in life when you take care of yourself and love yourself, you’re able to love the people around you and not try to bring others down because of your own insecurities. I do expect the next ten years of my life to be better than my last because I have a more positive outlook on life than I did the last ten years. I have realized that life is not about the materialistic things, unlike what I use to think. I have realized that life is making the best of what you have and always striving to do better, and now that I have come to this understanding, I do expect the next ten years to be pretty good. Especially now that I am entering into adulthood and have a chance to be fully in control on my life.
I hope to find a way to travel for a little bit (once this pandemic is over) and if I can’t do that in the next ten years then I hope to do it before I die. I also expect to graduate college and find a meaningful job. Honestly, I’m just excited for wherever life takes me.
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I enjoyed reading your essay. I am very glad you have more respect for yourself now. That is something that can really help us be happy in life. I'm also glad you have a plan to have a more positive outlook on life. I have the same plan too. I have a feeling things can only go up from where we are right now anyways. I hope your wishes for traveling are able to be fulfilled soon. I would also like to travel. Traveling can be fun to see all the places outside of our country or even our state. I hope all your plans work out.
DeleteI really got touched by your essay and that you have so much goals that you want to achieve. I really hope you get those dreams to become a reality and I pray that the next 10 years for you Kiera are really meaningful and full of memories that you cherish forever.
DeleteIs Peter Pan a worthy hero for a grown up?
ReplyDeleteNo, Peter Pan is not a worthy hero for a grown up. That's kind of the whole point of the story isn't it? He spends a lifetime avoiding adulthood. He resents it, actually. He doesn't want the responsibility or the maturity that comes along with it. As a young adult in today's world, responsibility and maturity is imperative to succeeding in life. I need to go through college to get a degree so that I can then get a job and a house and contribute to society. None of this is possible without responsibility, or at least not possible to a high degree. This is not easy, however. That's why as we grow up, we look to movies, books, and even people in real life for role models. They help us set a goal. They help us see where we want to eventually be. Role models can be very helpful to a person striving to be the best version of themselves, that is, unless your role model is peter pan. He represents all of the things an adult in today's world should try to avoid in order to be successful. As adults, we can look back at peter pan and on our childhood and reminisce about the good times and how care free we were, but at a certain point, it is imperative that we move on. It's a stage in life that cannot last forever. We only have so much time on this earth, and we can't waste it being children.
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The true story of Peter Pan is actually quite horrifying, especially when you make connections like you said involving how he resented the very idea of growing up. He thinks that he doesn't need to have any inkling of maturity or responsibility to live a good life, which is quite the opposite of the truth.
DeleteWhen I was younger, I use to admire Peter Pan as he was the symbol of freedom, creativity, and the great things about childhood. However, as I grew up, I began to root for Captain Hook as I would be mad to if some boy had cut off my hand and fed it to a crocodile. It's looking back that we realize that at one point, we must grow up. The reality of adulthood is not as glamorous as it was once pictured as it can often be tiring and stressful. Its why Peter Pan so often resents growing up because like so many of us, including myself, we are so afraid of going into the unknown and feeling alone with no purpose but work and responsibilities. Looking back, I realize that while childhood were good times that must be cherished and remembered of all the good things we saw in the world, we have to move forward as we can only plant the seeds for the next generation. We must learn to grow and mature as there are things that must be done that only adults can do.
DeleteI don't necessarily disagree with this, but i do see where he might be coming from as well. Being a child was easy. We were told when to do things and were only mad when it was curfew or bedtime on a weekend. He doesn't want to grow up knowing full well life will become much more difficult. He may not be a great role model for adults, unless we take it as we also need to learn to take what time we can and enjoy things again like we once did.
DeleteThe concept of Fantasyland is one that I hope a majority of America and to an extent the rest of world understands, and how that any group or person can fall into that sweet, molasses-like sludge. I believe that I am currently no where near falling into that trap, but who's to say I'm not already in it? We take many things for granted without even a second glance at it, and once we realize the repercussions there's only a slight shock before we're pulled towards our next distraction. Of course, this is just a side effect to a larger, more dangerous influence of Fantasyland: denial. In the corners and cesspools of the Internet, you can easily find those who believe in conspiracy and pseudoscience that are far fetched beyond what I thought was possible. Those same uneducated groups with their mindsets so deeply rooted, when confronted with confirmed facts, they'll easily double down with a Facebook link or even their own work if they're that far gone. This has always been an issue in all of mankind's recorded history, with our understanding of the past when we look back at how Galileo was ridiculed and prosecuted against the Church. We are able to understand that we must accept these newly found discoveries and not repeat history. However, as it shows in these times not all of us are too keen on acceptance, and have led to their own understandings. This is why I believe that I have not fallen into Fantasyland, for I choose to listen to others and come to my own conclusions based on the surefire facts. Of course, an anti-vaxxer could say the exact same thing and believe it to the end, right after declaring they as well have not entered Fantasyland, would they be wrong in their mind? Not at all, but to everyone else, it would be rather apparent. That's why I think the statement of whether or not I'm in Fantasyland to be a difficult one to make, for who's to say? All I can say is that I hope I'm not.
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I really liked reading your post. I also would like to hope I'm not in Fantasyland but I really have no idea. Anyone can think they aren't in Fantasyland but that may not be the case. I agree that we take so many things for granted without even a second thought to it. I think that's one of our big flaws. I always try and think for myself and form my own conclusions but I will admit it is hard sometimes. When we have so many different opinions floating around and different people claiming they're right. I hope in the end I think for myself and will try not to fall deep into Fantasyland.
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ReplyDeleteAfter watching the video, it really opened up my eyes about how many opportunities we have missed to improve the environment. I knew it was bad and that we hadn't acted as fast as we should have. But hearing her say (i think it was) 1989 was the year they could have really started fixing everything is very sad and frustrating to hear. I think that if we don't act now we will receive a message like this in the future. We have had so many chances to help the environment and save species, but have not taken it. We keep losing species and their habitats. If things don't have dramatic change soon, we will receive a message like this again, it my even be worse. People would rather try and challenge the idea that global warming even exists and have conspiracy theories than do something about it. There is plenty of evidence it exists and is harming our planet. If we don't want to hear something like this again in the future people need to start believing in science and doing what's best for the planet rather than what's best for their wallet. I hope that YouTube video opened up other people's eyes as it did mine. I'm glad there are people out there advocating for these things because we have wasted too much time already. I don't want the time of our planet to be shorter than it already is. I hope people will open up their eyes and see everything that is going on.
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Honestly, it is quite sad to hear that we should have been acting as soon as 1989; I can only hope that future generations won't have to repeat the very same thing to us.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with this portion of the statement, but not the statement in its entirety. In context, the quote is referring to a woman who had put all her belief in Christianity, and anytime she did not understand something she simply tacked it up to the divine plan. I do not agree with the religious aspect of this quote. In my opinion, it shows ignorance for someone who is unable to grasp an idea or concept or simple existence, and therefore claim it is the doing or will of some deity. I would agree with the portion of the quote above, that everything does make sense. Humans are not omniscient beings; they are simply incapable of possessing an infinite amount of knowledge. Even with the technology we have today, there are things about the universe, and even this planet that we call home, that we are unable to grasp and reason with; for example, we still do not know for sure what lies inside a black hole, past the event horizon, and we are still unable to cure ailments of the body, such as cancer. If we can not even heal our own diseases, how are we supposed to be capable of possessing knowledge about other things? Humans seem to think that there is nothing smarter or better suited for survival than them, and for now that may be true. In a thousand years, that could change. Humanity may be extinct, with a new species evolving to take our place. Can we grasp this concept? Does it make sense that our world is temporary, hectic, chaotic, and always moving? From an objective point of view, everything must make sense, we are just beings incapable of understanding everything. #12
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Do you think fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying? 230
ReplyDeleteI never quite understood the basic concept of growing up as a child, nor do I think many of us ever did; nowadays, though, I believe that as we realize we are indeed growing older with each passing day, we come to perhaps fear the very idea of continuing to live. Sure, I certainly fear death - rather, how I might die, but the very idea of living and growing up is scary in itself. As I grow up, I find that I don't find the same joy in some things like I did as a child, ranging from foods, drinks, games, etc. On top of that, I've started to fear living so long I might not understand the views of coming generations, much like I think older generations with ours (genZ specifically in my case.) I don't want to stick to one solid mindsight for the rest of my life as I continue to grow older, you know? In general I guess I just wonder, day after day, what tomorrow will bring - whether it be good or bad, of course, I would have no idea of knowing.
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I agree with you a lot because I certainly don't know what to do in the meantime before death. I don't wanna die as a mess up so the process of growing up is much more frightening to me then death because you can't predict your death but you can create your future.
DeleteI think our fears are growing up and not growing old, while unfortunately the two go hand in hand. I think we fear not enjoying the little things or not having time to do much. As we grow up, which inevitably comes from growing old, we know life stressors like work and bills and family will take hold and attempt to beat us down which make us afraid. Being a kid was easy, being an adult can be fun, but has the additive of stress.
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ReplyDeletePhilosophy: Why Grow Up?: Do you look forward to "giving back"? 204
ReplyDeleteWe all know that giving back can return the favor of the person or the receiver in a positive way. I've seen at work that customers pay for another's person order behind them and they keep it going. The look on their faces are just shocking and overwhelmed. Even celebrities give back to the people such as foundations/organizations, give healthy and clean food for the homeless, and even normal people and students that are in high school and college as well. Giving back is such a heart warming and thoughtful gesture that everyone should get to experience in their lives.
There are a whole bunch of people who donate clothes to the less fortune, canned goods, even do 5k walks to support the preemie babies, and much more. Every ounce of gesture is benefiting the next and so forth.
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Deleteyes I've seen that on Instagram and I like watching those type of videos because it brings a good feeling to my heart. I wanna be able to give back to those in need and just give them a new sense of hope. I enjoyed what you wrote and gave multiple examples on what people are currently doing to help those in need and hopefully inspire others to do so.
DeleteI must say I am excited to give back. I always love helping others to the best of my ability. Great post! Hopefully we can all be apart of giving back!
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"Everything makes sense. Just not to you or me." 133 Does this make sense?
Honestly, yes this does make sense. Everything has a reason or a purpose, whether we know that now or not. Science throughout the ages is a great example of this. Think back to history class when the plague was the topic of discussion. For all we knew, people were just dying out of nowhere. Obviously, they knew there was an illness, but not how or why it happened. We also didn’t know about germs for an incredibly long time. Now that we have this information, that makes sense. From a more personal standpoint, think about the times your parents told you no and you could not understand what their reason was, but looking back at into it makes perfect sense. Things seem like they have no rhyme or reason, but that is not always the case. We don’t have to understand everything right now. That won’t genuinely help anyone. Ignorance truly is bliss, but we do need to try to make sense of things to further growth as a society. So yes, everything does in some way make sense. We just may not know it quite yet.
Do you yet realize "that no time of one's life is the best one"?
Yes, I do. It’s actually fascinating in high school how many adults told me to cheer up and that these are the best years I will ever have while I had real problems going on much worse than my peers. The truth is every portion of your life has trials. There is no part of life that will ever be easy or truly great. Some days suck less than others, but to be so naïve as to say there’s one spot that is better than the rest doesn’t seem too accurate.
Do you think the fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying?
ReplyDeleteAt first thought, many people may say they are not scared to grow up and in fact, that they are excited. It always seems that whatever is next is going to be what satisfies, when in reality, there will always be a longing for more. When we are in middle school, we long to be in high school, and when we are in high school, we long for college, and when we are in college we long to graduate. It always feels that the present moment or our present circumstances are unsatisfying compared to the future. Because of this approach, it may be easy to say we long to grow up or that we long to live. However, beneath this idea is the reality that we will never be satisfied in life. To acknowledge our fear of growing up means understanding that we won’t be satisfied in the way we imagine. We may fear dying, but we also fear the pain that comes with the longing to be satisfied. Understanding this reality does invoke a fear of growing up and hence a fear of living. In order to combat this fear, we must come to grips with the reality of our situation. No matter how much we have, whether money or fame or community or love, we will always crave more. This is a factor of the human condition and it has the power to imprison us in sorrow or free us in truth. To know that our longings will never be truly fulfilled can be heartbreaking. However, understanding this reality can also give us the courage to believe there is something more to life. When we acknowledge our insurmountable desire, we can be at peace with dissatisfaction and therefore enjoy more of what life truly is- which is a striving and a yearning for a completeness that we will never reach.
Hi Anna, I really like your comment but it reminds me of the movie Office Space and the main character does find satisfaction in his life.
DeleteI agree with you, it often feels like I'm just waiting for graduation and a real job rather than actually being hopeful for what's coming. I've spent more than a decade working bottom of the totem pole customer service jobs and barely staying afloat. What if I actually pass the CPA and get into public accounting? I'm scared I'll just end up stressed about my job and not any happier.
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What will you do to escape, or avoid falling into, Fantasyland?
ReplyDeleteWe live in a country that seems to value in believing what you choose to believe and live it for themselves. While some may see that as a positive attribute, it has become the reason on why our country is divided. The reason is that the truth can often be painful for some people and is hard to digest. In most cases, instead of facing it and be forcing to accept the painful reality, we make up stories and fantasies to cope and hide from reality and slowly, it begins to cloud our judgement and all our decisions. Eventually, we begin to drag others to our own versions of reality in hopes of making it become the truth itself.
Of-course, I have been guilty of this and I have fallen down the rabbit hole of what many call Fantasyland. Whenever I find myself trapped in Fantasyland, I would often had to remind myself of where I come from and look around to see how that differs from mine. Next, whenever I do look at the news or headline on social media, I would have to remind myself that this is just one version of the what could be the truth. While it may not be my truth, it's just one person perspective of reality. Afterwards, I have to remind myself not to get involve in shaping one's beliefs for personal reasons. When I don't agree with some's beliefs, I don't get involve unless it threatens me personally. Finally, I must remember that it's important to gain knowledge and perspective from different parts of the world as I must understand them and know where do they come from and how they fit in to all of this. Only then can I try and understand the truth. The right version even if it takes me a while.
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I think this is a good approach, honestly.
DeleteI've been guilty of falling victim to misinformation and biased narratives as well over the years, and I was actually raised into it so it can still be a bit hard to tell sometimes. Taking time to ground oneself and examine things from different sides/perspectives is the best way to go about keeping oneself on a relatively realistic path, though. As tech progresses, I don't think we'll ever be able to truly escape crafted stories and mass-spread misinformation campaigns, but we have to do our best to at least try!
Do you think fear of growing up is really fear of living, not dying?
ReplyDelete-I personally believe I fear most is growing up. I've been exposed to a lot of life threatening situations and not to be weird I slowly came to terms with it. Not saying I want it to happen no sir not at all, but just more ideal that one day it will be my time and that it's normal. I fear growing more because I want to be someone important that can provide for those he loves and can provide back to his community. Also, I don't want to be a disappointment and be able to look back and be proud of all the goals I've achieved.
Do you look forward to "giving back"?
- yes, indeed I do I would like to mainly give back to my mom and stepdad. My mom because she worked to provide for me and created the person I am today. My stepdad is the only person I consider a father figure and I to others I introduce him as my Dad because he taught me everything I know if it wasn't for him I wouldn't know how to work in the field I desire to be in. Finally, I'd like to give back in general people from y community and those in need because being able to bring someone happiness for at least a day will bring lots of joy and money cant replace that.
Do you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation?
- Yes I do I'm planning on taking the knowledge from my last 10 years and learn from my mistakes to grow.
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Do i expect the next 10 years of my life to better than the last ten? In almost every single semblance of that statement do i sure as hell hope so. At 21 i was kicked out and slept on the street for awhile, kicked out of my uncles house after, then slept on my cousins couch. The army, while the best job i ever had, also provided some of the worst and some of the most painful things i have ever done. Yes they uilt some character, but in another sense i still have nerve damage in my big toes. While married, i was sent a text saying they weren't coming back and on deployment my ex invited ten different guys into my bed then blamed me for the chlamydia she got that i have never had. I intend whole heartedly to make damn sure my next ten years looks better. I am i school hoping to get into nursing or maybe another related field. I have a lady by my side that would never falter in holding me accountable. I have bought a house, adopted my animals, and am driving a nice old car (even though it needs some updates). These next ten years can hopefully, knock on wood, be nowhere near as bad as the last ten.
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Q: Do you yet realize "that no time of one's life is the best one"?
I don’t realize this at all or accept that it actually holds any truth.
While the concept of any one experience or time within one person’s life being “the best” is a bit hard due to many experiences being enjoyable or notable in completely separate ways and that our experiences and subsequent enjoyment therein are highly dependent on our mental state and mood at the time, I find the idea that general parts of ones’ life aren’t better than others preposterous. It feels to me that this “realization” or seemingly inevitable conclusion comes from a place of relative comfort and safety, wherein the one proposing it and those around them are free to live their lives without having to deal with trauma or despair beyond the occasional financial trouble or loss of a loved one due to illness/age. Ask anyone who’s ever been displaced by war or natural disaster, anyone who’s ever lost parts of their body and senses that most of us take for granted every day or who spends their nights thrashing and yelling as they struggle to cope with PTSD. I think you’d be hard pressed to find any of them who wouldn’t consider the time before the pain to be objectively better and wish they could go back. The road ahead isn’t always lined with silver and glistening with opportunities to grow and thrive as people. Often times it seems darker than the one behind.
That being said. I do agree with Susan Neiman on the importance of finding joy where we can and savoring it, but I feel that the idea that growing up is simply focusing on the good and not lingering on the bad seems a bit childish in itself and doesn’t take into account that serious enough trauma can permanently reduce or destroy our receptivity to joy at all.
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I believe that there are times in life that are better than others. By mentioning people who have lost limbs wanting to go back to when the had their limbs, I can't say I am one of those people. The best times in my life never would have been possible if I hadn't lost my leg. I also believe that Susan is right in looking for the good in every situation instead of just seeing the bad in it. I believe that you should always hold onto hope for the fact there is good times ahead no matter how bad the reality of the present can be.
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ReplyDeleteI think definitely to an extent I agree with that. I think people ARE scared of dying, even though it's so natural, because it feels so unnatural and leaves this void, but I do think the fear of growing up is more a fear about how your life shapes out to be. Everyone lives in the present, obviously it's subjective to our own viewpoints, but EVERYONE lives in the present. The future however, is completely unknown, you can make guesses, you can look at trends, you can check your star sign, but at the end of the day, it's completely unknown. When you graduate high school, graduate college, get your first salary job, get married, buy a house, have kids, so on and so forth, those are all unknowns. I mean its a really scary though at all times, it's kind of corny to say this, but no one really knows what the future might hold. Maybe your fields jobs aren't in high demand, maybe that salary isn't what you wanted it to be, maybe you don't get married, or can't afford the house, or can't have kids, and on top of all those uncertainties, there's more responsibilities, bills, taxes, insurance, providing for your family, maybe moving out and worrying what to eat for the night, just in general, growing up is extremely scary. But I think that's okay, it'd be much weirder if you were prepared for all of that, I think life is about going through that, I think there's not anyone who doesn't feel that way, and because people have done it before, Im sure myself, and people far into the future can do it too.
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thanks for the semester, it was a wild one
Very interesting take. I agree that the fear of growing up probably stems from a fear of dying, however I don't believe the majority of people fear this. I myself do not fear death. I am not just saying that to seem tough either. I personally have been close to death on many occasions: having cancer, being in two extremely bad car accidents, and even surviving through hurricane Katrina. I believe that another contribution to not being afraid is looking forward to what I believe awaits me when I die. Being able to be in a much better place with the loved ones I have lost already. Due to the fact I don't fear death, I have never feared growing up or didn't want to grow up. I have always been excited and looking forward to what my future holds.
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All I can do is hope that the next 10 years of my life are better than my last. I hope to accomplish a lot of things in that time. I will truly be starting my life and hopefully buying my own house. Several dreams that I want to fulfill with such little time to make them come true. In order to keep myself on track, I will always remember my goals. I will do what needs to be done in order to progress in life. I am excited to see what the next 10 years of my life holds.
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ReplyDeleteAnswer: I believe that the next ten years of my life will be better than the last ten. If everything goes as planned the next ten years I will accomplish the most important goals I have in my life. I plan to be a husband, buy a house, be a father, to have finished school, to have traveled the world a little more, become a world champion in my sport, compete in the next two paralympic games and medal at those games. In the next ten years I plan to do such great things. I will absolutely make these things happen.To fulfill these expectations I have I will actively work hard everyday for what I want. I will give glory and trust in God for the oppurtunities presented to me and never turn down a chance to better myself. I will work on my relationship with God and continue working on myself. I believe that by honoring God he will help me in achieving the goals I have set. Mark my words, I give thanks to God for everything and I will be known around the world and I will use my success to glorify the Lord.
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I missed some blog posts due to a lot of personal reasons I could not control. I apologize for not being able to give an outstanding performance but I truly did the best I could. No excuses though, I enjoyed your class and I thank you for your time.
I also hope to complete a lot of things in my next ten years of life, I feel like I've been riding a train for the majority of my life through public school and pursuing my music performance. I can now focus my time on things I want to do to better my life and complete my goals.
DeleteI enjoyed reading your response. I wish you accomplish every thing you aspire.
DeleteThanks for doing your best & making no excuses, Tyler, and good luck!
DeleteGood luck to everyone. (Luck being "the residue of design" to at least some extent...)
Do the older people in your life (grandparents for example) "manage emotions more smoothly" or remember fewer negative things?
ReplyDeleteWhen it comes to the older people in my life I think the root of it comes straight to experience. When they are faced with challenging times in which their mental state is challenged I think they are able to use prior experiences to help cope with these hard times. I also think that because of experience that in times of sadness they are able to look at those around them and capture a sense of pure joy because they are more grateful for what they have. I also think that they are more able to express and find positive ways of dealing with these issues in comparison to people of my age who are always trying to mask their insecurities and act as though nothing bothers them. When it comes to an older generation I also think it stems from how and what time period they were raised in. I often find myself having to always find something to do to entertain myself in some aspect and when I do not have something going on I feel down or lonely in different aspects. I think this is a product of technology and how it always is there so your mind is always active. But for an older generation who did not grow up with these technologies they learned to live their lives normally without always having to be entertained.
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I agree with this. older people were raised in a completey different setting than us and perceive a lot of things differently.
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ReplyDeleteAll of the older people in my life manage their emotions a lot more smoothly than others. My Grandmother can tell me about countless hardships that she has dealt with during her life and she is always able to keep he cool. I think that they have also has their strong emotions for most of their memories and there has always been something worse that happened to them in the past so they don't react to things as intensely as younger people. This also depends how these people react to different actions. if they are optimistic than they might not have a hard time forgetting about bad memories and moving on, and the older you get the better you are with dealing with these problems as soon as they arise.
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I totally agree that youngster this days cannot bear any intense pain. we have not even faced 50% of what our grandparents have experienced. I think that is sad.
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ReplyDeleteThe U-Bend does surprise me a little bit, but after considering it, it does make sense. Neiman quotes a statistic that on average, happiness declines until around the age of 46 before beginning to increase again. This makes sense because by that age, people are more likely to have a career which can support them, and also they have had enough time to learn how to be happy. I do find these studies to be encouraging, however 46 seems like a long ways away. I definitely think older people tend to be better at managing their emotions more smoothly. My mom is 64 and is always the first to laugh at herself. This is likely also a major reason why older people tend to be happier as well. I don’t totally agree with James that people’s character is set, like plaster, by the time they are 30. I do agree that he is correct in many cases, people tend to figure out their principles and values and stick with them. However, there are definitely exceptions to the rule. I do appreciate the thought that no time of one’s life is the best one. Young people yearning to be older and old people yearning to be young is wasted effort. I think whoever is able to embrace the time they have whenever is what’s precious.
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Kaag concludes his book with a sunset, which Neiman says young people typically have no time for- Do you? Well, I don’t know about you guys, but I always have time for a sunset. I always kind of found them calming but I really didn’t care that much. Now, since I’ve came to college, I really notice it a lot more, maybe because I like to walk the trailheads. Speaking of trailheads Murfreesboro has so many that everyone should check out if they have the time; I even stumbled on the MTSU water tower with my girlfriend a few months ago like 20 minutes before sunset. Also, I don’t know what it is about Murfreesboro, but the sunsets here are very vibrant like, we were driving back from walk last week and the sky literally looked like a rainbow. I used to never get sunsets like that in South Nashville.
ReplyDelete"It's more common to think about death in your twenties than it is in your fifties..." Do you hope that's true? Yes, I hope that is very true in our case. Mostly, I’m hoping to live a good life with as much of my regret behind me but also, there is a part of me that is just hoping that any one of the technological breakthroughs we’re on the verge of lead to some kind of radical life extension. I wouldn’t put money on it but, some scientist said he has it working on rats so I don’t know what that could entail in the next 20-30 years but I’m hopeful.
I want to give everyone just a bit of encouragement with some advice that I wrote to myself.
ReplyDelete“If you’re struggling to make yourself do something—like building a healthy habit—don’t tell yourself that you’ll do it tomorrow morning, evening, or night. DO IT THEN AND THERE, right in the heat of your motivation. Only then, will you be able to do it AGAIN tomorrow.”
“People who have REAL power don’t boast about it. They don’t react to uncomfortable situations or negative people. They do subtle things. They speak as if everything they say is important and as if they don’t need people to hear it. When he or she believes that they have power, others around them tend to believe it.”
“Instead of repeating a process over and over, break the cycle and create a path that goes forward. In my case, instead of getting angry when people make assumptions, understand why it happens and learn how to use that as to your advantage.”
“Honor the pain of your past by not forcing others to needlessly endure it themselves.”
“If you are sharing your ideas and opinions with others and they start pulling back, let up and give them a final compelling question. Then simply leave.”
“If you find yourself to be obsessed with a person or an object(s), distance yourself from it. The only good obsession to have is for the process of becoming a better human.”
“The Ultimate Sacrifice is not to DIE for others but to LIVE and SERVE others. I’ve noticed that boys are taught by nearly all cultures and forms of entertainment that giving up their lives for someone or something is THE ULTIMATE sacrifice. IT’S NOT.”
“Do not tell yourself you are not a warrior because you are not consistent in challenging the limits of your body. Tell yourself you are a warrior because you consistently challenge the limits of your mind. As an example, I struggle to make myself workout intensely everyday; but I have no problem making myself intensely work my intellect.”
“Relinquish your desire for nostalgia. If those feelings are not genuine and are forced, then you need to move on and create new happy memories.
“Constantly be skeptical of your perception of other people’s actions and ideas. As for me, I notoriously will think that something a person did or said is stupid when I don’t understand it. This happens because when I don’t immediately know how it can be helpful or positive, I ASSUME that it is negative or harmful.
“Understand your negative attributes; then alter your perception of them to be your strengths.”
“Do you want to be right or do you want to be comfortable? In other words, do you want to win every battle or do you want to be comfortable after every battle? Not every argument is worth being right at the end.”
“MOST IMPORTANTLY!! Don’t take things personally; because most of the time, what other people do isn’t about you. In fact, they probably weren’t thinking about you when they did that thing you didn’t like.
Making assumptions is human nature. In fact, I do it all the time and so does everyone else; but interestingly enough, I don’t get angry every time I notice it. Why is that? I tend to get angry when I believe that an assumption is being made on a false or misinterpreted premise. So how can this aspect of human nature be damaging and helpful? When making assumptions, an action or any other event is not required. Essentially assumptions can be created from nothing. This can be damaging because an assumption is often presented as evidence or reasoning. On the flip-side, this can be helpful because assumptions are not bad or bias by default—some can lead a person to discover the truth.
DeleteI think this is very cool and I wish you the best in the coming semesters and years.
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ReplyDeleteDo you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation?
ReplyDeleteI believe that my future will be more better than my past. I always wanted to see what will my life in the future, what will be my career and what will I become? I have many dreams and aspirations that i would like to accomplish within the next ten years to come. In ten years, i can see myself having many of my goal accomplished, if not accomplished, I will be working on accomplishing those goals to fulfil my life. We all know when growing up that we all wanted that fairy tale ending with the house, car, kids, and the dog. Ten years from now i plan to be coming out of college with several degrees, and being happy. School has always been an important goal in my life. I love helping other people with their sickness.
That is a good mind set to have and I hope for the best. Setting goals is always a good thing.
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Do you expect the next 10 years of your life to be better than the last? What will you do to fulfill that expectation?
ReplyDeleteI feel that the next 10 years of my life will be just as good as the last 10. Not better and not worse. I think the next ten years will be some of the most important years of my life. I will probably get married and get a job that will last me for my life. I want to be an airline pilot that flies for FedEx. I think it would be very cool to go and fly a Boeing 757 all around the world and see it from a different perspective. I will graduate college with hopefully a 4.0 which is my goal. I have been working very hard and over the first three semesters I will hold a 4.0 so I only have 5 to go but that is a long way. I think the next 10 years is when life really happens. It is kind of the part in life where people usually find their path they will lead for the rest of their life.
I think the last 10 years of my life have been very good and I think I am a very blessed person who has been taught the right way to try and work hard and earn the things that I have. I also think I have a lot people to thank for that. I am blessed to be able to go to college and learn the things that I am learning. Hopefully here in the next couple years I will be able to put it all together and become a pilot like I talked about. The plan is to get all my ratings which are private, tailwheel, instrument, commercial 1 and 2, and then become an instructor for the school. I then have to get 1000 hours of time and then try and land a job on an airline. That is the plan right now and hopefully it will all come together in a few years.
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Really liked reading through this. Good luck with your aspirations and plans. May life take you as far as your feet can go.
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Delete-Will the next 10 years be the best years of your life?
ReplyDeleteI don't want to sound overly or pointlessly optimistic, but I 100% believe that the next 10 ears will be the greatest I have had so far. I believe this because of the fact that as you get older, you learn more, whether by study or experience. I believe that I will continuously acquire both of these, so that that 10 years down the road, I will be a far more experienced and knowledgeable person in many different things. I love learning, whether it is in the books or experience, so I think that as long as God allows me to keep on living, I am going to always continue learning and getting better. I've certainly learned a lot in this class, and I am very glad that I chose to take it. Good luck to everyone!
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Love the optimism in this. Certainly a good response.
Deletethe next 10 years are very important for your success and the start of your real life. The next 10 years will increase your knowledge and allow you to gain insight into real world problems. best of luck out there
DeleteIs Peter Pan a worthy hero for a grown-up?
ReplyDeleteI think that Peter Pen doesn't need to be any adult hero or personal favorite character. He doesn't resemble any maturity and responsibility but operates in a childlike, overprotective, egotistical, and territorial manor. If a normal adult were to take hold of certain habits and behaviors that Peter Pan has they would surely be unsuccessful at best and a fool.
Do you look forward to "giving back"?
I think it would be a very wholesome experience to be in the position to give freely. At the same time though it might also become more of a hobby to you if done too much such as many celebrities that give to large organizations just to be seen or have the camera on them. I have given back a little this year, as it is the first year that I've had a steady job. I bought the people important to me Christmas gifts this year and that was a really humbling thing to do.
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I believe if you are in a position to give back you should. If you are not in a position to give back you shouldn't give up either. I believe everyone gets what they put in without work you will receive nothing
DeleteDo the older people in your life (grandparents for example) "manage emotions more smoothly" or remember fewer negative things?
ReplyDeleteI believe this is true. I believe our grandparents had a more positive few of america than kids today. I believe this is due to social media making kids insecure and perfect standards that people can't live up to. I believe that kids today do not like america as it stands while our grandparents love the american values. How did we get this disconnect. Well my experience is that this disconnect comes from schools. As the political climate changed I saw the teachings in schools change to only reflect that of one politcal party. This is the reason why I believe kids are demoaralized.
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A majority of my post were late. Please deduct what you think is fair as it would not be fair to everyone else who did their assignments on time if I was not penalized