Wonder and Hope- SSHM
In John Kaag's Sick Souls, Healthy Minds, the sixth and final chapter was a very fitting conclusion to how William James can save your life. Kaag brings together the various themes explored throughout the book, particularly the concept of the "sick soul" and how James's philosophy can offer a path towards a healthy mind and a more fulfilling life, and he does this by discussing the significance of wonder and hope.
James's "Maybe" Answer
An interesting way that James offers hope is in the word "maybe". Chapter six begins with the statement "LIFE IS WORTH LIVING," to which James suggested it should be changed to "LIFE IS WORTH LIVING - MAYBE." Now the addition of the word maybe may not be as satisfying of an addition as "always" might be, but there is a valid explanation as to why James is keen on the word. According to James, "it depends on the liver. It is up to each of us to, literally, make what we will of life" (SSHM, pg.171). The world as full of possibilities and "maybes," where individuals have the power to actively create meaning and value in their lives, rather than passively accepting a pre-determined fate. The “maybe” gives us the opportunity to make meaning out of our lives, in all its complexity, suggesting that life's value is not a fixed certainty but rather something we actively choose to engage in and find meaning in. We as the "livers" have the responsibility to make life meaningful, and I could not agree more. This is where hope is important. "Maybe" produces hope by allowing for the possibility of of positive outcomes in uncertain situations, essentially opening the door to a range of potential futures where things could turn out well, even when faced with challenges, thus providing a mental space to envision a better scenario and motivating action towards it. "Persistent variation gives rise to persistent wonder, and for James, this sense of mystery--of chance--was often enough to see him through when other practical measures failed him" (SSHM, pg. 173-174).
While hope and wonder are important for a happy lifestyle, there are times when you lose hope and the sense of wonder. I have experienced this personally during my freshman year of college. I was a student athlete at Columbia State CC, playing soccer during our pre-season and I tore my ACL in the first fifteen minutes of the game. The pain was instantly excruciating and I knew then and there that I had messed up my knee in a major way. Every day, leading up to my scheduled surgery and my recovery process after, I lost hope that I would ever be able to play soccer again. As I lost hope, I also began to lose my admiration and wonder for the sport I had dedicated thirteen years of my life towards. Eventually, I figured out that all the anger and depression I was feeling was just holding me back from progressing, so I made a change. That change was my mindset. In the video I linked above, Dr. Chan Hellman talks about hope and how it is considered a mindset rather than an emotion. So, in this situation where I felt like hope was lost, I changed how I viewed my situation and used it as an opportunity for improvement and discovery. I embraced the healing journey and focused on recovery techniques to help me come back even stronger. I focused on my progression, the small wins, and tracking my milestones. I even took time to reconnect with my sport and rediscovered the joy of playing through watching teammates and game films. Slowly but surely, I gained my hope and wonder back, and all it took was changing my perspective.
- Do you believe hope and wonder are important for a fulfilling life?
- Have you ever felt like all hope was lost in a situation? What helped you find hope again?
Very good. Hope IS a mindset, and a commitment both to oneself (to persevere against obstacles and challenges) and to the world (to do our part in the great ameliorative project of history). It's all about "embracing the journey," indeed.
ReplyDelete"Do you believe hope and wonder are important for a fulfilling life?" Yes. Properly experienced, both propel us to care and to act (and not mope).
"Have you ever felt like all hope was lost in a situation? What helped you find hope again?" There was a time when I'd given up on my academic goals and thought I'd not continue in pursuit of a PhD. What helped most was the confidence others (especially diss'n director & spouse) placed in me. It's important to surround yourself with the right "team"!