ALSO RECOMMENDED: De Natura Deorum (On the Nature of the Gods) Cicero's dialogue between a Skeptic, a Stoic, and an Epicurean... & JMH's smart commentary on it in Doubt: A History*
Discussion Questions:
- Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
- Are you epicurean in any sense of the word?
- Have you experienced the death of someone close to you? How did you handle it?
- Do you believe in the possibility of a punitive and painful afterlife? Do you care about the lives of those who will survive you? Which do you consider more important? Why?
- Do you consider Epicurus's disbelief in immortal souls a solution to the problem of dying, or an evasion of it? Do you find the thought of ultimate mortality consoling or mortifying?
- How do you know, or decide, which things you can change and which you can't?
- Were the Stoics right to say we can always control our attitude towards events, even if we can't control events themselves?
- Is it easier for you not to get "worked up" about small things you can't change (like the weather, or bad drivers) or large things (like presidential malfeasance and terrorist atrocites)? Should you be equally calm in the face of both?
- Who had the better idea about why we shouldn't be afraid to die, Epicurus or Cicero?
- Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
- Is it possible to live like a Stoic without becoming cold, heartless, and inhumane?
- What do you think of when you hear the word "therapy"? Do you think philosophers can be good therapists?
- Do you think "the greatest happiness of the greatest number" is an appropriate goal in life? Can it be effectively pursued by those who shun "any direct involvement in public life"?
- If the motion of atoms explains everything, can we be free?
- Is it true that your private thoughts can never be enslaved?
- Do you agree with the Stoic critique of Plato's Forms? (321)
- How do you distinguish things that are and are not subject to your control?
Study Questions
1. According to Epicurus, fear of death is based on what, and the best way to live is what?
2. How is the modern meaning of "epicurean" different from Epicurus's?
3. What famous 20th century philosopher echoed Epicurus's attitude towards death?
4. How did Epicurus respond to the idea of divine punishment in the afterlife?
5. What was the Stoics' basic idea, and what was their aim?
6. Why did Cicero think we shouldn't worry about dying?
7. Why didn't Seneca consider life too short?
2. How is the modern meaning of "epicurean" different from Epicurus's?
3. What famous 20th century philosopher echoed Epicurus's attitude towards death?
4. How did Epicurus respond to the idea of divine punishment in the afterlife?
5. What was the Stoics' basic idea, and what was their aim?
6. Why did Cicero think we shouldn't worry about dying?
7. Why didn't Seneca consider life too short?
8. What does the author say might be the cost of stoicism?
Jefferson the Stoic-Epicurean"Before he attained domestic happiness he had probably worked out his enduring philosophy of life; it was marked by cheerfulness not gloom, and he afterwards described it as Epicurean, though he hastened to say that the term was much misunderstood. He came to believe that happiness was the end of life, but, as has been said, he was engaged by the "peculiar conjunction of duty with happiness"; and his working philosophy was a sort of blend of Epicureanism and Stoicism, in which the goal of happiness was attained by self-discipline." Dumas Malone, Jefferson the Virginian
The Ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus was born in 341 BC, on the island of Samos, a few miles off the coast of modern Turkey. He had an unusually long beard, wrote over three hundred books and was one of the most famous philosophers of his age.
What made him famous was his skilful and relentless focus on one particular subject: happiness. Previously, philosophers had wanted to know how to be good; Epicurus insisted he wanted to focus on how to be happy.
Few philosophers had ever made such a frank, down-to-earth admission of their interests before. It shocked many, especially when they heard that Epicurus had started a School for Happiness. The idea of what was going on inside was both entirely shocking and deeply titillating. A few disgruntled Epicureans made some damaging leaks about what was going on in the school. Timocrates said that Epicurus had to vomit twice a day because he spent all his time on a sofa being fed luxurious meats and fish by a team of slaves. And Diotimus the Stoic published fifty lewd letters which he said had been written by Epicurus to some young students when he’d been drunk and sexually obsessed. It’s because of such gossip that we still sometimes now use the adjective ‘Epicurean’ to describe luxury and decadence... SoL
Book of Life: Epicurus
What is the best life we can live? How can we cope with whatever the universe throws at us and keep thriving nonetheless? The ancient Greco-Roman philosophy of Stoicism explains that while we may not always have control over the events affecting us, we can have control over how we approach things. Massimo Pigliucci describes the philosophy of Stoicism...Ed.ted
‘Stoicism’ was a philosophy that flourished for some 400 years in Ancient Greece and Rome, gaining widespread support among all classes of society. It had one overwhelming and highly practical ambition: to teach people how to be calm and brave in the face of overwhelming anxiety and pain.
We still honour this school whenever we call someone ‘stoic’ or plain ‘philosophical’ when fate turns against them: when they lose their keys, are humiliated at work, rejected in love or disgraced in society. Of all philosophies, Stoicism remains perhaps the most immediately relevant and useful for our uncertain and panicky times... SoL
Pigliucci's Best Books on Stoicism
Stoicism, in contrast with a lot of contemporary philosophy, puts a great emphasis on living well: the person who studies Stoicism, if sincere, will also practise it. I know you’re both a theorist and a practitioner. Could you say a little bit about how you came to Stoicism?
We’ll get back to the theorist part because I’m definitely not an ancient philosophy scholar, so I’m not a theorist in that sense, but I’m interested in Stoicism as both theory and practice for today’s world. How did I come to it? It was a long circuitous route. A few years ago I went through a midlife crisis and switched from my first academic career as an evolutionary biologist to become a philosopher. Within philosophy I’m interested mostly in the philosophy of science, but you can’t switch to philosophy and start studying it seriously and just be limited to your own technical field of expertise; at least you can, but I don’t think you should.
I began reading more broadly, and—coming to philosophy in the second half of my life—I had a lot to catch up with. I started reading about ethics. I read Kant and Mill, and looked at modern ethics in terms of deontology and utilitarianism in all their forms. I found those ways of understanding ethics wanting. They are wonderful authors, but it didn’t click with me. Then I remembered studying philosophy back in high school – I grew up in Italy where it is mandatory to study three years of history of philosophy. I remembered reading about the ancient Greeks and Romans, and had vague recollections that these people had a very different conception of ethics.
The first stop there was obviously Aristotle. I rediscovered virtue ethics, and that really did appeal to me immediately. Then I went beyond Aristotle and read what little there is available on Epicureanism and some of the other Hellenistic schools of virtue ethics. All this interested me because it clearly embodied a much broader conception of ethics. Most contemporary ethics is focused on answering narrower questions such as: ‘Is this action right or wrong?’ and: ‘Under what circumstances is this permissible or not permissible?’ (...continues)
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We’ll get back to the theorist part because I’m definitely not an ancient philosophy scholar, so I’m not a theorist in that sense, but I’m interested in Stoicism as both theory and practice for today’s world. How did I come to it? It was a long circuitous route. A few years ago I went through a midlife crisis and switched from my first academic career as an evolutionary biologist to become a philosopher. Within philosophy I’m interested mostly in the philosophy of science, but you can’t switch to philosophy and start studying it seriously and just be limited to your own technical field of expertise; at least you can, but I don’t think you should.
I began reading more broadly, and—coming to philosophy in the second half of my life—I had a lot to catch up with. I started reading about ethics. I read Kant and Mill, and looked at modern ethics in terms of deontology and utilitarianism in all their forms. I found those ways of understanding ethics wanting. They are wonderful authors, but it didn’t click with me. Then I remembered studying philosophy back in high school – I grew up in Italy where it is mandatory to study three years of history of philosophy. I remembered reading about the ancient Greeks and Romans, and had vague recollections that these people had a very different conception of ethics.
The first stop there was obviously Aristotle. I rediscovered virtue ethics, and that really did appeal to me immediately. Then I went beyond Aristotle and read what little there is available on Epicureanism and some of the other Hellenistic schools of virtue ethics. All this interested me because it clearly embodied a much broader conception of ethics. Most contemporary ethics is focused on answering narrower questions such as: ‘Is this action right or wrong?’ and: ‘Under what circumstances is this permissible or not permissible?’ (...continues)
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Modern Stoicism-"stoic philosophy resources for modern living"...
Human Nature and the Ethical Life
Oct 1, 2018 MASSIMO PIGLIUCCI
Philosophers have been debating human nature for centuries, but in an era of increasing political vitriol and partisanship, the issues at stake are gaining new relevance. To understand what we should expect from our leaders, we must first consider what to expect of ourselves.
NEW YORK – Does human nature exist? The answer has implications for anyone concerned about ethics. In an era defined by amoral political leadership and eroding social values, thinking about the essence of humanity has never been more important.
The philosophical concept of “human nature” has a long history. In Western culture, its study began with Socrates in the fifth century BCE, but it was Aristotle who argued that human nature was characterized by unique attributes – particularly, people’s need to socialize and our ability to reason. For the Stoics of Hellenistic Greece, human nature was what gave life meaning and contributed to their embrace of cosmopolitanism and equality.
Ancient Chinese philosophers like Confucius and Menciusbelieved human nature was innately good, while Xunzi thought it was evil and lacked a moral compass. In the Judeo-Christian-Islamic traditions, human nature is fundamentally corrupted by sin, but can be redeemed by embracing God, in whose image we have been created.
Modern Western philosophers, writing in the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries, expanded on these ideas. The English philosopher Thomas Hobbes argued that our natural state leads to a life that is “solitary, poor, nasty, brutish, and short,” which is why we need a strong, centralized political authority (the so-called Leviathan).
By contrast, Jean-Jacques Rousseau believed that human nature is malleable, but that our original state was one without reason, language, or community. He concluded that the mismatch between our early condition and modern civilization is at the root of our unhappiness, advocating a literal return to nature. David Hume, always sensible and moderate, proposed that humans are characterized by a combination of altruism and selfishness, and that such a combination can be partially molded for the better (or worse) by culture.
Charles Darwin’s work in the mid-1800s made many of the early “essentialist” views of human nature untenable. The idea that humans had a small set of characteristics that only humans possess was at odds with the slow, gradual pace of Darwinian evolution. While Homo sapiens evolved as a particular species of primate, there are no clean breaks between our biology and that of other species.
So the philosophical debate over human nature rages on, updated with the findings of biology. Today, some philosophers interpret Rousseau and Darwin to mean that human nature itself is nonexistent, and that while biology may constrain the body, it does not restrict our minds or our volition.
Evolutionary psychologists and even some neuroscientists say that is nonsense. The message they take from Darwin (and partly from Rousseau) is that we are maladaptive in a modern context – basically, Pleistocene apes who find themselves equipped with mobile phones and nuclear weapons.
As an evolutionary biologist and philosopher of science, my view is that human nature certainly exists, but that it is not based on an “essence” of any kind. Rather, our species, just like any other biological species, is characterized by a dynamic and evolving set of traits that are statistically typical for our lineage but neither present in every member nor absent from every other species.
Why does any of this matter to someone who is not a scientist or a philosopher? There are at least two good reasons that I can think of. One is personal; the other is political.
First, how we interpret human nature has broad implications for ethics, in the ancient Greco-Roman sense of the study of how we should live our lives. Someone who holds a Judeo-Christian-Islamic view of human nature is naturally going to worship God and follow the guidance of religious commandments. By contrast, someone adopting an existentialist philosophyalong the lines of Jean-Paul Sartre or Simone de Beauvoir might believe that because “existence precedes essence,” we are radically free to shape our livesaccording to our own choices, and do not need God to help us along.
Moreover, views on human nature affect views on ethics. And today, our ethics are a mess. One recent study in the United States called Donald Drumpf’s presidency the “most unethical” in American history, while Gallup’s annual survey of US attitudes toward morality suggests a steady erosion of social mores. If we all took a moment to consider where we stood on the debate about human nature, we might gain valuable insight into our own beliefs – and by extension, the beliefs of others.
Personally, I lean toward the naturalistic ethics of the Stoics, for whom human nature constrains and suggests – but does not rigidly determine – what we can and should do. But regardless of one’s religious or philosophical leanings, reflecting on who we are – biologically and otherwise – is a good way to take more ownership of our actions. Needless to say, there are many among us who could benefit from such an exercise.
Massimo Pigliucci is the K.D. Irani Professor of Philosophy at the City College of New York. He is the author of How to Be a Stoic: Using Ancient Philosophy to Live a Modern Life. He blogs at patreon.com/PlatoFootnotes
Want To Be Happy? Live Like A Stoic For A Week
Want To Be Happy? Live Like A Stoic For A Week
What have the Romans ever done for us? Well, obviously the roads – the roads go without saying. How about guidance for how to live in the 21st century? That seems less likely, but in fact the last few years have seen a flurry of interest in the work of three Roman Stoic philosophers who offered just that. They were Seneca, tutor to the Emperor Nero; Epictetus, a former slave; and Marcus Aurelius, himself emperor.
Modern books drawing on their ideas and repackaged as guidance for how to live well today include A Guide to the Good Life by William Irvine, Stoicism and the Art of Happiness by Donald Robertson, The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman, and How to Be a Stoic by Massimo Pigliucci. What all these books share is the conviction that people can benefit by going back and looking at the ideas of these Roman Stoics. There’s even an annual week dedicated to Stoicism.
Stoicism holds that the key to a good, happy life is the cultivation of an excellent mental state, which the Stoics identified with virtue and being rational. The ideal life is one that is in harmony with Nature, of which we are all part, and an attitude of calm indifference towards external events. It began in Greece, and was founded around 300BC by Zeno, who used teach at the site of the Painted Stoa in Athens, hence the name Stoicism. The works of the early Stoics are for the most part lost, so it is the Roman Stoics who have been most influential over the centuries, and continue to be today... (continues)
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* "The conceit of The Nature of the Gods was that many years earlier Cicero’s friend Cotta, a great orator and priest, had invited the young Cicero to his home. When Cicero arrived he found himself in the company of three famous men—one an Epicurean, one a Stoic, and one, Cotta himself, a Skeptic from the Academy—engaged in a heated conversation about the gods. The Epicurean and the Stoic have some very definite ideas about the matter; Cotta, the Skeptic, claims to know nothing for sure, but also claims to be expert at seeing falsehood..."
Hecht is also very good on my favorite Stoic, the Emperor Marcus Aurelius: "Aurelius stands out as a man struggling to internalize the truths of philosophy; his Meditations read like a sage counseling himself through some dark night or ethical confusion. That he was emperor, and perhaps as close to a philosopher-king as the West would ever know, has long fueled interest in his Meditations, but it needn’t have. The book is a marvel of insight and advice. It is not particularly original in its ideas—it is mostly a mixture of Stoicism and Epicureanism—but the voice here is new and warm, and the advice, on all sorts of subjects, is good. It feels good to read it."
Start reading it for free: http://a.co/i8pkJ5A
Modern books drawing on their ideas and repackaged as guidance for how to live well today include A Guide to the Good Life by William Irvine, Stoicism and the Art of Happiness by Donald Robertson, The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday and Stephen Hanselman, and How to Be a Stoic by Massimo Pigliucci. What all these books share is the conviction that people can benefit by going back and looking at the ideas of these Roman Stoics. There’s even an annual week dedicated to Stoicism.
Stoicism holds that the key to a good, happy life is the cultivation of an excellent mental state, which the Stoics identified with virtue and being rational. The ideal life is one that is in harmony with Nature, of which we are all part, and an attitude of calm indifference towards external events. It began in Greece, and was founded around 300BC by Zeno, who used teach at the site of the Painted Stoa in Athens, hence the name Stoicism. The works of the early Stoics are for the most part lost, so it is the Roman Stoics who have been most influential over the centuries, and continue to be today... (continues)
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A Stoic’s Key to Peace of Mind: Seneca on the Antidote to Anxiety
“There are more things … likely to frighten us than there are to crush us; we suffer more often in imagination than in reality.”
BY MARIA POPOVA
“The truth is, we know so little about life, we don’t really know what the good news is and what the bad news is,”Kurt Vonnegut observed in discussing Hamlet during his influential lecture on the shapes of stories. “The whole process of nature is an integrated process of immense complexity, and it’s really impossible to tell whether anything that happens in it is good or bad,” Alan Watts wrote a generation earlier in his sobering case for learning not to think in terms of gain or loss. And yet most of us spend swaths of our days worrying about the prospect of events we judge to be negative, potential losses driven by what we perceive to be “bad news.” In the 1930s, one pastor itemized anxiety into five categories of worries, four of which imaginary and the fifth, “worries that have a real foundation,” occupying “possibly 8% of the total.”
A twenty-four-hour news cycle that preys on this human propensity has undeniably aggravated the problem and swelled the 8% to appear as 98%, but at the heart of this warping of reality is an ancient tendency of mind so hard-wired into our psyche that it exists independently of external events. The great first-century Roman philosopher Seneca examined it, and its only real antidote, with uncommon insight in his correspondence with his friend Lucilius Junior, later published as Letters from a Stoic(public library) — the timeless trove of wisdom that gave us Seneca on true and false friendship and the mental discipline of overcoming fear... (continues)
* "The conceit of The Nature of the Gods was that many years earlier Cicero’s friend Cotta, a great orator and priest, had invited the young Cicero to his home. When Cicero arrived he found himself in the company of three famous men—one an Epicurean, one a Stoic, and one, Cotta himself, a Skeptic from the Academy—engaged in a heated conversation about the gods. The Epicurean and the Stoic have some very definite ideas about the matter; Cotta, the Skeptic, claims to know nothing for sure, but also claims to be expert at seeing falsehood..."
Hecht is also very good on my favorite Stoic, the Emperor Marcus Aurelius: "Aurelius stands out as a man struggling to internalize the truths of philosophy; his Meditations read like a sage counseling himself through some dark night or ethical confusion. That he was emperor, and perhaps as close to a philosopher-king as the West would ever know, has long fueled interest in his Meditations, but it needn’t have. The book is a marvel of insight and advice. It is not particularly original in its ideas—it is mostly a mixture of Stoicism and Epicureanism—but the voice here is new and warm, and the advice, on all sorts of subjects, is good. It feels good to read it."
Start reading it for free: http://a.co/i8pkJ5A
― from "Doubt: A History: The Great Doubters and Their Legacy of Innovation from Socrates and Jesus to Thomas Jefferson and Emily Dickinson"
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“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
“Never let the future disturb you. You will meet it, if you have to, with the same weapons of reason which today arm you against the present.”
― Meditations
― Meditations
“It is the power of the mind to be unconquerable.”
“Until we have begun to go without them, we fail to realize how unnecessary many things are. We've been using them not because we needed them but because we had them.”
“For what prevents us from saying that the happy life is to have a mind that is free, lofty, fearless and steadfast - a mind that is placed beyond the reach of fear, beyond the reach of desire, that counts virtue the only good, baseness the only evil, and all else but a worthless mass of things, which come and go without increasing or diminishing the highest good, and neither subtract any part from the happy life nor add any part to it?
A man thus grounded must, whether he wills or not, necessarily be attended by constant cheerfulness and a joy that is deep and issues from deep within, since he finds delight in his own resources, and desires no joys greater than his inner joys.”
A man thus grounded must, whether he wills or not, necessarily be attended by constant cheerfulness and a joy that is deep and issues from deep within, since he finds delight in his own resources, and desires no joys greater than his inner joys.”
“It is not the man who has too little that is poor, but the one who hankers after more.”
“If what you have seems insufficient to you, then though you possess the world, you will yet be miserable.”
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Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI think it's natural to have a fear of death. I'm scared of dying, and what will happen when I die. Growing up in a Christian family has given me a variety of ideas, but my fascination with space and the cosmos has given me others. I'm very afraid with how I spend my time on this planet. I know I'm still young and I have a whole life to live, but you never know what can happen. I could die tomorrow, I could die in 80 years. There's no telling. But my own favorite way of coping with these thoughts is a term I caught in a YouTube video, "Optimistic Nihilism." Coined by Kurzgesagt, known for their scientific videos, it's a way of coping with the idea that nothing we do matters because we're living in a mere small fraction of the universe's lifespan. But we have to make the most of that fraction. I may die one day, and so will everyone else, so I at least have to try to make the most out of the life I was given. My actions have repercussions, but on a cosmic scale they mean nothing. It's dark, it's frightening, but you've got to admit it's a little comforting, right?
Do you consider Epicurus's disbelief in immortal souls a solution to the problem of dying, or an evasion of it? Do you find the thought of ultimate mortality consoling or mortifying?
I find his disbelief odd, because the belief in immortality after death itself is supposed to be THE solution to the problem of dying. Heaven is supposed to be the best possible thing, it's supposed to be perfect. The thought of ultimate mortality, however, is both consoling and mortifying. Whether it's depressing to say or not, I don't want to live with forever. If you live forever, and you know you live forever, what's the point of having commitments? What's the point of trying to work on yourself, fall in love, or accomplish anything? The time we have as humans is a blessing and a curse in this right. Of course, knowing we are finite beings can lead us to wish for immortality, but what happens when you achieve that? Do you try to do everything you've ever wanted, or do you decide not to because you now know you have all the time in the world, quite literally.
Were the Stoics right to say we can always control our attitude towards events, even if we can't control events themselves?
To put it bluntly, no. Not everyone is as in tune with their emotions and character as the next person, and even if you think you have a great hold over yourself, there's always something that can break you down. I see stoicism as a weakness. Having emotions is one of the main things that make us human. We should embrace the way we feel, but the sad truth is that there is such a stigma around it. Everyone wants to be happy, and everyone wants to seem happy. But no one can always keep up this front. You may be able to control how you act, but how you feel is an entirely different story.
What do you think of when you hear the word "therapy"? Do you think philosophers can be good therapists?
I think: emotional and mental help. But the philosopher side of it all depends on the philosopher, and the person receiving the therapy. Stoicism, for one, I would see as a terrible therapy method. But that comes from my perspective. Every person is unique and requires different things. As every person's philosophy is unique and is used to address different aspects of life.
I'm not necessarily afraid of death, but I tend to find myself concerned about the people that I will leave behind. To cope with it I remember that I've lost people in my life and I've moved past the pain and the people that I will leave behind will as well
ReplyDeleteI really like the way that you said "having emotions is one of the main things that make us human." We absolutely need emotions to live life everyday. If we didn't feel emotions the world would be boring and uneventful.
DeleteAre you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI am afraid of my life ending without me doing everything I want to accomplish. I don't know if there is necessarily a way to counter this fear besides telling myself that everything happens for a reason and life moves on.
Have you experienced the death of someone close to you? How did you handle it?
Yes, I have experienced a death in my family of someone who was close to me. I tried to be peaceful for my younger brothers's sake because they did not really understand what was going on, however, this person was very important to me and I still am not over their death to this day.
Do you believe in the possibility of a punitive and painful afterlife?
I do believe in the possibility of a painful afterlife for those who deserve it such as murderers, rapists, pedophiles, etc.
Were the Stoics right to say we can always control our attitude towards events, even if we can't control events themselves? I do not think we can control every little feeling for unforeseen events, especially if it was something tragic.
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DeleteI also think you can overcome your fear by focusing less on the unchangable parts of life and more on what you can change.
DeleteI disagree on your last point. I think with practice you could eventually have complete control over your emotions and attitude.
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ReplyDeleteDo you think "the greatest happiness of the greatest number" is an appropriate goal in life? Can it be effectively pursued by those who shun "any direct involvement in public life"?
I do believe "the greatest happiness of the greatest number" is an appropriate goal in life. It is my fundamental belief that humans go through life with the ultimate goal to find a form of happiness that best fits their life. Further more I believe that the "search" for happiness along the way can bring some of the greatest joy throughout a persons life. By putting happiness on the highest pedestal of life you not only find joy within yourself, but shine your happiness on the outside world. In response to the question "Can it be effectively pursued by those who shun "any direct involvement in public life"?" I absolutely believe someone can find joy in the absences of others. Although humans are social animals and tend to find their happiness in others it can be easily understood that all humans do not find joy in the same ways. In short some find happiness in the absence of others just as many find joy surrounded by others company.
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ReplyDeleteAre you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
I'm often afraid of dying and think about death quite often. I have an irrational fear that I will die any second from a brain hemorrhage or that I won't wake up if I go to sleep. I think the best way to counter the fear is to keep yourself busy and engaged in the moment.
Is it easier for you not to get "worked up" about small things you can't change (like the weather, or bad drivers) or large things (like presidential malfeasance and terrorist atrocites)? Should you be equally calm in the face of both?
It's definitely easier for me to get "worked up" about the larger things in life. In general I'm pretty good at moving past little inconveniences but things that hold a certain power over my life can make me angry. I don't necessarily think you should be calm about both. I think if you're trying to change something in the world on a larger scale, being calm would help your approach and probably be more effective. However, the issues themselves should not make you calm, they should make you passionate and give you the drive to do something about them.
Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
I don't think I waste too much time, I'm usually keeping myself busy practicing things or working on them. I think it's important to keep your goals in the forefront of your mind in order to use your time wisely. When you think about what you want to accomplish or what you strive to do it's much easier to not be content with sitting around "wasting" away.
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ReplyDeleteAre you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
I'm sure when I'm on deaths doorstep I'll be scared but as of now I am not scared of death. I'm more worried about not doing everything I've wanted to do in my life and also the affect that my death has on others. It's just really difficult thinking of my loved ones when I die because they'll be hurting and I will have no way to help. As for death itself, I think I would be more scared if I wasn't so curious about what happens after.
Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
I waste a lot of time. It's way too easy for me to pull out my phone and scroll though tik tok, get on my xbox and play games, or talk with my roommates about nothing in particular. I think the best way for anyone to make the most of the time they have left is to get better self control. As I said I always get sucked into doing things that don't have a lot of value and if I had better self control I would be able to do things that contribute to my life and don't waste my time.
Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I have my worries about dying. It's not one of those topics people just casually discuss, so anytime it's on the forefront the emotional connections can result with sensitive reactions. Dying is something I know that will happen, but I think I worry about when the most. Who knows? The way people die is very random; you could die tomorrow or in ten years. That's the main thing that gets me is when. As a Christian, I do believe in an afterlife in Heaven, which is one way that helps me push the fears and worries aside. The thought of going to Heaven and seeing loved ones again and being in the prescience of God eases the nervous connotation in regards to death. Everyone wants to live a long and happy life and make the most that we can, but sometimes the unexpected happens and Death crosses our paths.
Is it easier for you not to get "worked up" about small things you can't change (like the weather, or bad drivers) or large things (like presidential malfeasance and terrorist atrocites)? Should you be equally calm in the face of both?
I get "worked up" by a ton of things, so no matter the weight they have, I get worked up. In my opinion, I feel like it's okay to stay calm when facing both, but the emotional variety that can be felt while experiencing or looking at the things we can't change strengthens or foundations. I do believe that emotions can blind our actions, but not all the time. The things we can't change are just inconveniences in our life that have some affect. As a citizen, we want to be able to fix everything and make the world perfect but it's not that simple. That's why when someone is driving horribly or poachers in Africa are killing endangered animals, our instincts as humans drive us to make a change, but because of our current situation in life, it's hard to have any impact or effect on these subjects.
Have you experienced the death of someone close to you? How did you handle it?
I have lost people that were close to me and people that weren't close to me, but who I knew. I've handled them all very differently. When I lost my grandmother (who I was extremely close with), it broke my heart because I loved her very much. The thought of her not being there was just heavy on me. In the moment, I couldn't think straight because I was so sad, but I know that I'll see her again someday. I have also lost people to suicide, which is really upsetting for me. I've had mixed emotions about these. Yes I was sad about them not being there anymore, but I was also hurt because I believe that suicide is selfish. But aside from that, my reactions were all sad, but the intensity of sadness depended on the situation; family and friends.
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ReplyDeleteAre you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
I am terrified of death, especially dying alone. No matter what my family has said about dying or the inevitable, I still find the idea of nonphysical existence horrifying because of its uncertainty. Some ways I have found some comfort is that I would have hopefully accomplished everything I had wanted to do beforehand, and to try to stabilize myself with the hopes of being surrounded by friends and family when I go.
Have you experienced the death of someone close to you? How did you handle it?
I lost my grandfather from stage four lung cancer about three weeks before my high school graduation; I watched him fight and suffer for months on end, especially after I went distance learning to help my grandmother take care of him. It was the most painful experience in my life, and is still too difficult of a subject for me to talk about in person. I didn't speak for three days, and I sobbed endlessly. I fell into a very long depressive episode. I have gotten a bit better dealing with it, but I still have my off days.
How do you distinguish things that are and are not subject to your control?
A great example I use to help me maintain a balance is my anxiety disorder. I have had severe anxiety since I was about five years old; I was not given help for it until I was fifteen. In order to not dwell and become depressed over my issues, I started to believe in a coexistence with them instead of trying tirelessly to defeat them when I know that my anxiety is a part of who I am. No matter what medication I am on, I will still fear what others think of me and get as ahead on my assignments as I can. I can control, however, how I treat others and not allow my anxiety let me be ugly or hateful to people who don't understand or wrong me unknowingly. The distinguishing part is comparing what is in bad intention.
(H2) Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI go back and forth. Sometimes I consider it a part of life, other times the thought of the complete lack of consciousness, the end of everything I've ever known, naturally gets to me. Right now I'm not a believer in the concept of an afterlife, but it would be nice to think maybe there is. I've heard that in the final moments your perception of time changes. Maybe your last few seconds feel like a few hours or weeks or days, where you can see mental versions of loved ones and accept where you're going. I wouldn't mind that. In summary I think anything is possible when it comes to death, so much like Socrates there really is no reason to fear, because you don't know where you might end up.
Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
I believe time spent doing something you enjoy isn't wasted time. That being said, there comes a limit of too much of a good thing. As a kid I would seek joy out of just laying in bed, looking at my phone, and letting the minutes and hours pass. Really it wasn't time wasted mentally, because I'd be watching and listening or reading things on my phone that I gained intellectual value from. But socially or physically it took a toll. Luckily that phase of my life didn't last too long. The best advice I can give on the subject is that even when you're doing nothing, make sure you're doing something.
* Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI would definitely say that the thought of dying scares me. The biggest part of it that scares me is the uncertainty of when it will be. It's like if you were using a computer to play a long game but you had no way of checking the battery level when you started. You know the battery will not last forever, but you have no idea how long it will actually last. You wonder do you even invest the time into the game, with the possibility that you could lose all progress due to the computer dying in a matter of minutes? Or do you try to complete as much of the game as possible, hoping that you can making something worth while with the time that you have? That part of life is hard for me, because death could come to anyone at any given instant. It's hard knowing what to do with a life in which you're not even guaranteed the next three seconds.
* Have you experienced the death of someone close to you? How did you handle it?
I have. My dad died when I was three which is a bummer. At first, the way I "handled it" was by asking when he was coming home. I was young and didn't understand death. Eventually through therapy I was able to understand why my dad wouldn't be coming home. I understood and moved on as best as a child could. However, as I've grown older I do think that it has gotten harder for me to deal with. Constantly having new questions about life and not having a father to talk with them about has been hard. My mom is amazing but there are some father-son experiences that just aren't the same with a mom.
* Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
I definitely waste too much time, and the biggest reason for this is my phone being an incredible source of distraction. I think I could make the most of the time I have by completely removing my phone from the scenario, but that's something that likely is not going to be happening any time soon.
* What do you think of when you hear the word "therapy"? Do you think philosophers can be good therapists?
When I hear the word "therapy" I tend to think of a scheduled time in which a person struggling mentally goes and talks with someone who can help explain to them why they are feeling the way they are feeling, and through discussion walk the person to understand how to better deal with their surroundings/emotions to live a better life. I totally think that philosophers would be good therapists, as they are accustomed to talking with people about the way the mind works, and I think they would have the necessary knowledge to truly help those struggling mentally
Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI am not afraid of mortality because I accepted a couple years ago that we all must die eventually and it's unavoidable. When I was learning to accept this, I coped with it by forcing myself to live as if I was going to die tomorrow, so if I hypothetically did die tomorrow, I would die knowing I lived as much life as I could.
Are you epicurean in any sense of the word?
Yes. We have to live life in the present. Life is not worth living if we don't indulge in simple pleasures when it's appropriate and we're able to. I also believe we have to work hard to truly an epicurean lifestyle. We have to have the means to afford such pleasures.
How do you know, or decide, which things you can change and which you can't?
I know I can change things that are in my direct control. If I share that control with others, I know I'll have an influence, but I won't be heartbroken if my influence isn't enough to change the outcome.
I am not afraid of dying either. I have also come to accept that it is natural and supposed to happen. I do not think living my life with the fear of it ending will benefit me in anyway.
DeleteI agree. Living as if its your last day makes life more meaningful.
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ReplyDelete1) Is it true that your private thoughts can never be enslaved?
Technically no one can control your inner thoughts but society and other people can influence them. You are technically able to think freely but it is possible for people to manipulate you and gaslight you to think a certain way. Free thought isn't always a given.
2) What do you think of when you hear the word "therapy"? Do you think philosophers can be good therapists?
When I hear therapy I have positive connotations to it. I think of getting help and having a trusted and knowledgeable perspective helping you through life. Philosophers can be either good therapists or terrible ones. They would either bring a new and really insightful perspective or really boggle your mind in a very unhelpful way.
3) How do you know, or decide, which things you can change and which you can't?
I consider how much control I have over the issue at hand. What do I know? What abilities or power do I have to affect it? If it is outside my control I try to do research and look for other people or organizations that can make a difference and either seek help from them or join their efforts in any way I can. Sometimes though, its best to not worry myself about things I have no control over.
I agree that free thought can be impacted by outer influences. I also like that you do not worry about things that are out of your control. I think that is a great and very freeing mindset.
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ReplyDeleteWhat does the author say might be the cost of stoicism?
The author explains that in indifference about the events around you, one might lose their humanity. He says, " we become cold, heartless, and perhaps even less human," (page 31) showing indifference might not be the best option.
Why didn't Seneca consider life too short?
He knew ageing was normal, and he couldn't change anything about it. Rather than running out of time to do what he wanted, Seneca prioritized his time, " making the best of our short time here," (page 30).
Were the Stoics right to say we can always control our attitude towards events, even if we can't control events themselves?
I think they were right. Even in bad situations you can control the way you react. If you don't like what is going on around you, you can choose to help others or react positively.
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ReplyDeleteAre you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
I used to be very afraid of death and the general concept of human mortality when I was a lot younger, as to me it was horrifying that there was no guarantee of an afterlife or living as long as I would hope. Over time I sort of lost my fear for that side of life, less from acceptance and more from exposure to the thought of it and an increasing focus on my day-to-day life and work. I think that going from crying about it at 2am to being largely apathetic may not be the greatest ultimatum, but I assume it will continue to change with age and experience.
Is it easier for you not to get "worked up" about small things you can't change (like the weather, or bad drivers) or large things (like presidential malfeasance and terrorist atrocites)? Should you be equally calm in the face of both?
In my experience, I have a far easier time coming to an acceptance or understanding with larger events such as climate change, or more minor large events such as changes of plans on a trip or years spent in my basement because of covid rather than more small scale things such as being late to a class due to an alarm failing or getting wet from unexpected rain. These events can be prepared for (in some cases) or planned around, however the smaller events feel much more within reach after the fact even if the only solution to any of them would be time travel. The small issues get me riled up more easily due to the "proximity", while I can far more easily dismiss large events or one that effect others as "outside my control".
What do you think of when you hear the word "therapy"? Do you think philosophers can be good therapists?
When I think of therapy or a therapist, I usually think of a professional specializing in dealing with human minds and interactions and their various quirks and illnesses. I think that in some cases a philosopher would be able to help others in therapy through offering new ways to think or approach life, however on the flip side, a philosopher subscribing to the way of thought that nothing is certain or that nothing really matters would most likely not help someone with a mental imbalance. It would depend on the patient and the philosopher.
Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human morality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI am afraid of death. I know that death is inevitable and that everyone will face it one day. However, it still scares me. I feel as if I have so much more of my life to live and so many more memories to make. I was raised to believe that every day is something to value and appreciate because you have no idea when it will be your last. You never know what could happen weeks from now, days from now, hours from now, or even minutes from now. But I prefer to look at it in an optimistic light. I have a lifetime to go and many more memories to make. I still have to graduate college, get married, have kids, and start my career. The only way to counter the fear is to live one day at a time and stay optimistic. Never go on with regrets and live life to the fullest.
Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
I am a terrible procrastinator. I have never been able to do things in a timely manner. I have procrastinated throughout middle school, high school, and even part of college. After many attempts to kill the bad habit, I realized I have not succeeded. I do waste way too much time. I spend more time worrying than actually doing what needs to be done. The only solution to my problem is to write down what I need to do and set small goals. I am the kind of person who once they set their mind to something, they never give up.
What do you think of when you hear the word "therapy"? Do you think philosophers can be good therapists?
As a child, I believed that the word “therapy” came with a negative connotation. No one ever told me that. However, it was the stigma that was put behind the word. After some growing and maturing, I realized therapy actually is a positive thing. It includes helping someone that is in need of help. They are accepting that someone can better their quality of life and they are making themselves vulnerable. I applaud those who accept the help that people are trained to give. Philosophers could potentially be therapists. Each philosopher would have a strict approach. However, philosophers are more well known for their abstract thoughts and their thinking outside of the box. They are known to be wise. I think they could approach someone’s problems with a good intention. But they would end up not helping them as much as they were relaying their opinion.
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ReplyDeleteAre you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What’s the best way to counter such fear?
Death is a particularly scary concept for me because I am afraid of the unknown that awaits after a person passes away. Various theories exist that attempt to explain what happens subsequent to death, such as an eternal slumber, reincarnation, or afterlife state. However, no person still living truly knows the answer. In addition, I worry about dying without truly accomplishing my long term goals and the after effects my death will have on those closest to me. To combat these feelings, I tend to not think about death, but instead think in the present and work towards the goals I want to achieve.
Do you waste too much time? How do you think you can make the most of the time you have?
I definity waste an excessive amount of time on my phone or watching tv. I will get easily distracted by current events in the media or other social media platforms. However, I believe I can make the most of the time by becoming a more productive person and working towards the goals I have set for myself. Also, I could seek out different hobbies that align with my interests and skills.
I agree, the unknown is often scary, especially when it comes to death.
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ReplyDelete“There are more things … likely to frighten us than there are to crush us; we suffer more often in imagination than in reality.”
In the spirit of being peripatetic, I asked my girlfriend what she thought about the quote. In response to my questioning she found the quote to be a great example of herself. She says she tends to focus on the probability of the improbable. I tend to agree with the quote as well and often find when I feel the most anxious is when I try and imagine the possibilities of the future.
Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What’s the best way to counter such fear?
Although I do not fear death I fear dying a great amount. However morbid death is only the state of nonexistence after life. I've already experienced the state nothingness just like all of have in the some 18.9 billon years before our births. Whereas I have not yet experienced the sensation of dying. With the endless amount of painful and painless ways I could meet my end I fear that I might find my death in a unpleasant way.
I am not afraid of dying because I have never really been afraid of dying. I do not understand why people are so afraid of it. People always die. It is part of life and I have come to accept that. Although, it is a little funny but I do have a fear of my loved ones dying. I guess because I do not want to be alone in this world. I am not afraid of being alone in some other world though because I think whatever happens after I die is meant to be.
ReplyDeleteI do not think stoics will become heartless and cold as long as they remember they should not be stoic to the good things and they should not forget the sad things either. I think this is an interesting idea that may work in extreme situations or in little incontrollable situations but if people start being stoic about everything in their life they might become apathetic which is not a fix to the situation because it also is not a pleasant experience to not feel anything.
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ReplyDeleteI do not fear death because it is uncontrollable and unpredictable. To counter fears of death I think it would be best to focus on the current events and task at hand. You will die, but that does not mean you have to go quietly.
I am an epicurean in that I enjoy comfort and food.
I experienced the death of my cousin Michael in January, 2019. I was sad, but I tried my best to hold myself together and move on. I do not believe there is an afterlife, so it is not very important to me when considering death. I do care about those who will survive me. I hope those I care about will be safe and happy and there happiness will be more important than my death.
I think Epicurus's disbelief in immortal souls is a solution because it alows for more focus on what can be done in the present for others rather than yourself. Mortality is consoling because living forever would mean watching friends and family die as the world burns over and over again in tragedy after tragedy. I imagine it would get boring and dull.
I know I cannot change others, but I can change my own actions and attitudes towards events. Sometimes this is difficult, but it is still possible.
For me, it is easier to not get worked up about the small things. I feel like we should be able to change the larger things, but it is still very much impossible. It would however to remain calm regardless of the situation.
I definately waste a lot of my time consuming entertainment, but I should be making the most of my time by going out and figuring things out.
You can be stoic without becoming cold, heartless, and inhumane if you have control over your emotions and allow yourself to show some small emotions while remaining a calm and collected person. When I hear "therapy" I feel like it is a place of thought, recovery, and emotions. I think philosophers could be good therapists if they wanted to turn their time over to ponder someone else's thoughts.
I think happiness is a good goal to have because it means you are content and at peace. Further pursuits beyond that fall flat. If you do this out of the public eye than you may be lonely, but it is probably possible.
If the motion of atoms explains everything, we cannot be free because we will not be content with an explanation if it has no purpose.
It is not true that your private thoughts can never be enslaved because they can be consumed by outward stimiuli.
Study Questions
1. According to Epicurus, fear of death is based on bad logic, and the best way to live is to overcome fear.
2. The modern meaning of "epicurean" is different from Epicurus's because it means to partake in many luxuries where Epicurus believed in simpler tastes to be happy.
3. The famous 20th century philosopher echoed Epicurus's attitude towards death was Ludwig Wittgenstein who wrote Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus.
4. Epicurus responded to the idea of divine punishment in the afterlife by saying we will not be capable of consciousness after death therefore there will be no divine punishment.
5. The Stoics' basic idea was to remain calm in the face of everything, and their aim was to have complete control over their reactions.
6. Cicero thought we shouldn't worry about dying because it was unchangable.
7. Seneca considered life too short because their is so much to do and so little time to do it.
8. The author says the cost of stoicism might be that we become cold, heartless, and less human.
Are you afraid of death, of dying, or of any other aspect of human mortality? Why or why not? What's the best way to counter such fear?
ReplyDeleteI'm not afraid of death, but the possible suffering leading to death i am.
Were the Stoics right to say we can always control our attitude towards events, even if we can't control events themselves?
Yes I think it just takes deep thought and patience to control our feeling about uncontrollable events.
Is it easier for you not to get "worked up" about small things you can't change (like the weather, or bad drivers) or large things (like presidential malfeasance and terrorist atrocites)? Should you be equally calm in the face of both?
Sometimes small event work me up more. It sounds selfish to say this but i get more worked up about what directly affects me. I think being calm is a good thing to try and do in hard times.