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Monday, November 1, 2021

Maturity

 LISTENHappy Halloween, happy November.

"Becoming adult" is our next chapter in Why Grow Up...

Stephen Law tweets: "I'm 60. Yet I don't feel that I am a 'grown up', and feel I would be a fraud if I pretended to be one (I do know how to *act* like a 'grown up')."

To which I say: just wait four years. 

A student asked the other day, in response to my approving citation of Susan Neiman's statement that it's a mistake to think the best years are between 16 and 26 (or 18 and 28?): What is the best? Sixty-four, I said. Next year I'll say sixty-five. When I stop updating my answer, you'll know my time is past. Not dead yet.

While I'm here, I'll still keep on trying to think for myself. That's Kant's definition of maturity. Are we there yet? (continues)

3 comments:

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    I really admire this, "What is the best? Sixty-four, I said. Next year I'll say sixty-five." I think it gives encouragement that there is not a specific time of life that will be the best, but you can make each year count as long as you're willing to try.

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  2. The 'best' can only be in reference to your lived experienced to date. Personally, my goal each day is to have a better day than I did yesterday. By my logic, there can never be "best years". I'd like the graph of my life to continue in a positive trajectory.

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    I like the idea of "what is the best? sixty-four." I think a lot of people get wrapped up in time and believe younger days were the best part of life. It is freeing to live each day and year like it is your best, not looking at the past wanting to go back to a different time.

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